what shud i do.?
2006-08-21 22:45:27 · 31 answers · asked by Prada 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it. Tell him how you feel, you never know it might be mutual. Good luck x
2006-08-21 22:49:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a number of friends who are in mixed religious marriages. Real love is better than a marriage of convieniance. Some kept their religious differences, respect each other, understand the importance of personal faith & taught the kids both religions.
My other Muslim friend met a wonderful Chrisitan girl. He didn't care what religion she was. But his family said he would go to hell if they married.
She was kind to him & studied Islam, & took on Muslim faith. She said it is the same God. She still has Christian beliefs, but that is compatable with the core of Islam. A Muslim means "one who is submitted to God's Will". That can apply to many who love God.
I think you should be friends with this white guy. If he's really a good guy, he will respect & encourage your faith. Maybe he won't become Muslim, but if he encourages you to be yourself, including your religion, then he is a true friend (and maybe more?)
2006-08-22 06:54:13 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see any problem liking someone of a different race, or religion (or no religion for some).
I dont know how old you are... but it sounds like you are worried what your parents think, as if there very strict going 'outisde' of the asian and muslim standard?
I dont honestly know what you can do... but if you really like someone, you never know until you try. Is there any Asian friends you have that you can talk to... and find opinions of other people?
Hopefully, you will get some feedback of Asian people here....
Good luck and I hope it all goes well for you!!!
2006-08-22 06:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow .. this is a difficult one.
You cannot change how you are 'wired' .. you will be attracted to people (or not) from within and you cant force it one way or the other.
This is not the place (and I would run out of characters) to discuss the issues about 'out of religion' relationships as I am sure you are more than aware of the difficulties this could cause you.
I guess you need to decide if this guy is worth the problems that may arise and if he is then go for it! You are entitled to your opinion, freedom of choice and most of all have the right to be happy :)
2006-08-22 05:51:48 · answer #4 · answered by enzuigiriuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Love should not be restrained by race or religion, you are obviously considering going out with him which is good anyway. If he loves you back, he will love you regardless of you religion.
I have been in an opposite position I fell for a devout Irish Catholic, which was not a problem for me, since religion does not matter. But I felt reluctant to tell him my feelings, because I felt that because I was not a Catholic, he would not consider going out with me, esp. since I am a huge fan of Dave Allen!!
Just go for it - life is too short - the worst he can say is 'no' - he may feel the same way about you, but he may feel that you see your religion as a barrier, and not being muslim he may feel inhibited about telling you how he feels.
So go for it!
Good Luck and Take Care
2006-08-22 10:00:03 · answer #5 · answered by km 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the man is honorable, loving, and you dig him, go for it. Are you afraid of what others think, especially family members? I can understand why some people would be resistant to you dating and courting someone outside of your race or religious community. If he knows who you are and respects the fact that you are who you are, then follow your heart. Just like all potential relationships, take it slowly at first.
2006-08-22 05:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely all religions quote peace and harmony with everyone on this planet! Love knows no barriers so why let it get in the way?
You only live once and who knows, when we die we may find that the faith we have lived by doesn't exist anyway so then you've waisted your life! Good luck.
2006-08-22 05:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Les-Paul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry him & maybe it'll solve the Christian/Muslim war,just like when a Hatfield married a McCoy,it ended their famous feud!
2006-08-22 05:52:48 · answer #8 · answered by Putt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your nationality should not matter. What matters is if both of you love and respect each other and if your parents don't like it well tell them that it's 2006 and things have changed! Go for it.
2006-08-22 15:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Kelsey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it girl, its this sticking together in the same culteral groups that make most of the current problems in todays world and if he has no problems with you being muslim then whats the problem
2006-08-22 05:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rather depends if your family will react physically. Some Muslim families do.
2006-08-23 08:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋