GUESS WHAT GIRLFRIENDS I'VE NEVER RECEIVED ANYTHING FROM MY BOYFRIEND! But i've got him lots of sweet stuff, i know relationships are not about receiving. Help me out on this one
2006-08-21 22:02:36 · 10 answers · asked by Ajay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think it shows that he doesn't care/love.. but it doesnt show that he does either.. you need to ask him.. and stop getting him stuff..
maybe he's just not the type of person who thinks he needs to buy you material things to show his feelings...... maybe he thinks it's too "girly".. maybe you should let him know that you like such gestures
2006-08-21 22:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should be spending equal money on you, or slightly more. I don't agree with men paying for everything for women, because it makes her feel obligated to sleep with him.
If he really likes you he should buy you things here and there. But some men are selfish regardless of whether or not they like you. I would just be honest with him and ask him why he never buys you anything. Don't complain about it, just simply and casually ask one day. Hopefully he will get the hint. In a good relationship there must be 100% honesty. If you bottle in your emotions and thoughts, it will just lead to you getting more angry in the future. Tell him how you feel.
2006-08-22 05:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends how he treats you. not all guys try and show their love with material posesions. but seeing as u have bought him gifts in the past this does seem a little odd.
unless ur talking about presents for like bdays and xmas then he is a cheapskate.
2006-08-22 05:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by its all about me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he has never bought you anything doesnt mean he doesnt love you. relationships arent based on gifts but on the people who supposedly love each other. sure its weird he's never bought you anything but does he show you he loves and cares for you in other ways?
2006-08-22 05:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know....my boyfriend haven't gave me anything but it doesn't really matter...though when we go shopping he asks me if I want something to buy etc...I don't think it really shows anything but we are material gurls lol
2006-08-22 05:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by anesziere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do he treat you? Would you rather have all the gifts and a black eye or no gifts and him being faithful and loving?
2006-08-22 05:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Miss. Tee98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur complainin just bcoz he doesnt get u anythin..
wat do u think of my situation???
havent heard fr him, not a txt, call or email 4 d last 2 days..
wat's worse dan dat???
2006-08-22 05:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he treats you well then why complain that he doesn't "buy" you things? Isn't affection worth more than things he can buy you?
2006-08-22 05:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is somthing special to treasure than anything else. love and trust him
2006-08-22 05:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by nej24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another girl that cares just about the money and what she does and doesnt get
2006-08-22 05:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by ... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋