hey how should one feel when your girlfriend confess of having sex with her x boy friend bt it happnd long ago

Question

before we started our relationship she told everything about her past love life.when she was in class 11-12 she had a boy friend and she mistakekly indulge herself into sex but it was long time back now she is a teacher.though its been a long time i can still feel so much pain.i luv her very very much but i only wanted her to be mine physcially as well as souly.even i had a sex with 3 girls so i feel guilty about it.sex doesnt really matters much to me now.sometimes i feel very jealous.though i also had a sex so why should i feel bad isnt it? we all are human beings,girls-boys both can make mistake.when i am too happy and too sad with her that things always comes to my mind.or am i excpecting my wife to be virgin? whatever it is but im not gonna leave her no never.......whats her fault nothin who am i too decide whether too accept or reject her/judge her.we together had drreamed a dream to have our baby and we gonna live happily ever after.help me remove this feeings from me.thks

Answer 1

I'd say can I join in?

Answer 2

First off dude get over it. It was in the past, leave it there, you were no virgin yourself. If you believed that you are the only person this person loved, then time for a reality check, the major majority of people have a past history, Key word here is PAST. Remember she married you and that's all that counts every time you start feeling stupid remind yourself of that fact if you cant do by yourself than seek professional assistance, if you start letting this eat at you and start up the jealousy crap you'll lose her and for what? And would it be worth it? Good Luck

Answer 3

I am not trying to be mean but you need to grow up man. Stop being so judgmental and critical. Also straighten up your act. Don't dwell on past events. If you truly care and want to be sincere and deserving then concentrate on being the best person you can be and give her your all and support. Strive to develop a relationship of trust and sincerity. Keep away from pressures you have no control of and work on being positive.

Answer 4

Keep cool and try not to get jealouse. Ask her if she can do it again with the guy, make into threesome for pleasing the three of you.

Answer 5

just focus on the present and the future, what happened in the past cannot be changed, just thank God that she is honest with u

Answer 6

if you love her, get the evil thoughts out of your head.if you doubt for a second, take some time off and think about it.

Answer 7

dump her in a second man and beat the crap outa him

Answer 8

forget the past mate.. and be happy.