Am 22 and have never had a crush on anybody. i have a bf n it wasnt love at first sight. what amaizes me on this site is that some girls as young as 13 have crushes n go to the point of telling the guy! i mean, i wouldnt. i have so much pride as a lady. men have to do the worrying n liking n stuff like that. Tell me an i ok? i dont get butterflies in my tummy wen i see a guy someone would describe as cute...not even Brad pitt...
2006-08-21 21:59:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. Darling you are right. Yuo are maintaining your self respect and is not bowed down before men. You are 100% right. and OK. You will win your partner and he will be your nice friend and will respect you. I have full regard for you as you appears to have taken cognizance of your respect in t he meeting with other persons and particularly male .
2006-08-21 22:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? I kinda feel the same way except that I'm 16, I don't have a bf but I had a crush before but like you said, its not butterflies in my tummy or sweaty palms, but because of his great personality! So I think that's okay, I also have high pride as a lady as I have never really told any guy I like him unless I knew him for years and really like him? But otherwise, no way! Some are that way because, I don't know, times are changing and they want to be modern girls...? maybe... but that's not a good excuse because we should still protect our dignity as women!
2006-08-21 22:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Cho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YAY at last, one lady still around. Yes you are perfectly sane. I read some of the questions on here and think "Man where have all the ladies gone".
If all the girls on here only knew that its actually alright not to be running after guys and to get experience in ALL areas before the age of 14.
Give the guys a chance, how else would you ever be swept of your feet, if you are doing the chasing ?
2006-08-21 22:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Nomad 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Females have no desire what so ever to be a lady! If your a lady, people know it when you walk in! No one has to tell them! Now days most females want to be sluts and ho's and claim lady hood! Of course that don't work! There still sluts and ho's!
I don't know you, but I am proud of you! Your one of the few or rare ones that says there may be hope for mankind yet! My prayers and wishes are with you 100%
Have you noticed the males prospective compared to the female? It may well be worth whiled to take notice! some women don't realize how far off base they are!
2006-08-21 22:11:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think people are different and they have different ways of expressing their feelings. Congratulations to you, seriously, on taking pride in being less expressive. I don't think men should be wholly responsible for the relationship because I think our reaction and maybe even our own initiative makes up for at least half. Maybe you have different tastes than other people and that's okay too, so if you don't get butterflies, then I think you're still fine.
2006-08-21 22:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by smoopy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 09:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not getting butterflies or ever really liking someone has nothing to do with being a "lady."
Women who were courted back in the day (who were ladies) often got butterflies over their suitors...
I have no clue where you could be emotionally.
2006-08-21 22:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who you get a crush on depends on your idea of cute or handsome. And I do prefer the guy to make the first move but then again we're in 2006, if I want something I'll go for it, if not I might regret it later...
2006-08-21 22:04:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is feeling affection towards other people a sign of lacking "pride of being a lady"? I don't know you, of course, but it seems to me like you've got issues with relationships and attraction in general. If you continue to project your own feelings onto other people like this (you almost seem to be trying to convince yourself that they're doing something wrong so that you feel okay with yourself), therapy might be a nice option, if only to see if there are any underlying issues or insecurities.
2006-08-21 22:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
brad pitt is overratted and he cheated on his woman! ha! lol. but like, i get where you're cuming from, i think, well, i duno what normal is what with there being no such thing as normal, but there has to be someone who you look at and think, he's quite a hotie, not necesarily want to jump him, but you appreciate, the time and effort, that was put into moulding him. lol.
if you havent, you'll find him.
2006-08-21 22:05:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋