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This Dutch guy that I love and loves me so much told me on the first few days that we met about his past. He told me that he was hooked up with a whore before. He was so drunk with his friend. Out of fun, they called a whore. They spent a very hot night with two whores in the hotel. He said that he felt so cheap and dirty after that. After telling me this, I was a bit hesitant to go on loving him. Does past really matter? Do you think it can happen again. He said that he didn't sleep around when committed to someone. He is serious when it comes to relationship, but I'm just too scared that it might happen again. What shall I do?
2006-08-21 21:54:40 · 8 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, he did something really shady, but he did tell you about it... So maybe he is remorseful. Because a person does something bad one time, doesn't mean they'll do it again, maybe he learned his lesson.
2006-08-21 22:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just after a few days and you love each other very much? It sounds like a fairy tale! How can you really love him when you have doubts after listening to his story? I will call it lust.
What do you think is his objective in telling you the whore story? Was it necessary?
2006-08-22 05:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this was his first time, then he may well is truthful with you! If not his first, the as the old saying goes, Once a cheater always a cheater! Be it male or female!
2006-08-22 05:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure he doesn't have STD first, then worry about what kind of friends he has, they are bad influence, if he still friends with them, watch out. the good news is he told you his past, he is honest at least, if you can forget and forgive, give him another chance. good luck.
2006-08-22 05:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, watch his actions. Maybe he can keep on doing this if he say he really enjoyed that night.
2006-08-22 05:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep loving him don't ever give up (unless he is committed to someone else)
2006-08-22 05:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would find a new boy friend
2006-08-22 05:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if in doubt don't date him or try talking to him about it.
2006-08-22 05:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by nobody's perfect ..01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋