How can u convince him to let u...(Don't need no holier than thou lecture on why i shouldn't date a married man.Give me a realistic answer and suggestion).
2006-08-21 21:47:43 · 16 answers · asked by bimby babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your single you can do what you want ....holla at me...black1781@yahoo.com
2006-08-21 21:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to NOT give a holier than thou lecture. You're a freaking homewrecker... obviously if he can have whoever he wants on the side then you should too... maybe you two can spread some diseases around (I'm sure his wife would appreciate that) while your at it.
2006-08-22 04:54:14 · answer #2 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello bimby babe !
What I'm about to say is not said out of meaness, or disdain for you, or a " holier than thou attitude ", ok ? Here goes...
Well to put it simply, he's selfish. That's the reason. He just wants to have his cake, pie, twinkies, and everything...
It isn't a surprise that he wants you all to himself; it's just the nature of the beast.
Why on earth would he encourage you to date other men ?
If you dated other men, you could meet single men who would want to secure a monogamous relationship with you, and then where would he be ?
Not only is he cheating on his wife; he's cheating YOU out of a decent chance for a relationship with someone who is single, and who would love to be claimed by you.
There are billions of single men on this planet; the odds of you finding one are excellent.
Bimby Babe, do better, because you are better...
As I said before, he's selfish.
Peace, love, and light,
tishy
2006-08-22 05:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by bubletish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well am a married man and am not too posesive like that with ma Girl friends but actually there may be three reasons for a man to do that 1.He feels his spending to much on u so he cant see u using his money on a so called boyfreind 2. He is a jealous man 3.he does not want to let go cos he feels a younger boy might do u better (on bed). but again i wish u get settled on time with your opwn Man not someone elses Man. I laugh at most of ma Girl friends that wants to be possesive cos they Dont realise the Fact that am justing helping Ma self Not them cos thier Time is going. contact me i will advice more:steven_makanjuola@yahoo.com
2006-08-22 04:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by segsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i aint bein holier than thou, but you said it yourslelf huny. let the mofo go! they are selfish pr*cks thats why they wont let you get some from someone else. he wants his wife and a bit of meat on the side. and the two of you's is supposed to be oh yeah, big daddy and thats it. wtf! lol. really, he's possesive and you need to get yourself someone else who will always have time for you, unless of course, thats not what you are after.
2006-08-22 04:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A realistic answer is,you're stupid.Not trying to be an azz,but damn girl..... Wake up!!!
2006-08-22 04:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because to men having a women is about having power. they want to control you at all times.
2006-08-22 04:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him - why don't I have a life - and a realistic answer is because your a loser!!! - I can't believe this question.
2006-08-22 04:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because married men wants faithfulness from their girlfriends.
2006-08-22 04:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by koolkat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date a single guy
2006-08-22 04:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Maimee 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They want you to feel special and he wants to feel special! Plus with the STD's out there, you may catch one, give it to him and he gives it to his wife!
2006-08-22 04:58:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋