okay im gonna start from the beginning. my friend told me that he liked me about two weeks ago and i told him i didnt feel the same way but then he told one of my friends who told another friend and then i just found out that one of the youth leaders at my church thinks we are going out and he told that to my friend who told the guy who likes me who told me and now im stressing out. i know its kind of confusing but now im afraid people at church are going to treat us differently and they are gonna talk. now i dont wanna go to church. now the guy who likes me is acting really weird and i dont know what im going to do. plz advice me!!
2006-08-21 21:40:59 · 18 answers · asked by Ali 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't stress if your not "going out" the word will get around quickly. What I don't understand is why is it any of their business if you are or are not going out with this person. Sounds like you church is full of busybodies maybe you should find a more mature church to attend.
2006-08-21 21:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off just confront the dude who is supposedly saying your dating, with statements going through that many people there probably is little truth in the version you got. If he admits to it then ask him to stop saying it, and forget about it after that. People are gonna talk and say stuff no matter what, that's just a fact of life how you deal with it is what's important and my philosophy is that life is too short to worry about what others think as long as i know what the truth is and im content within myself then that's all that matter's. I don't believe we were put here on this earth to please others only achieve peace within ourselves.
MY question to you is, that you say you don't feel the same way about this boy as he does you, so why does it bother you that's he's acting weird now thinking your dating some other fool?
And go to church don't let stupid stuff like this interfere with your relation with god in the end he's the only one who counts
GL
2006-08-22 04:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this boy that if he was really a friend to you that he would show just a little bit more respect! And not go round lying just becaus ehis ego is battered. He should publicly apologise for his behaviour and ask for your forgiveness in church in front of the people he has lied to. If he can do this he will be more of a man, and not a boy. Tell him to think this over before he decides what to do. Help him relaise he is not doing himself any favours by acting like this, and that if you forgive him, then God will also forgive him and then he can ok again.
Hope it helps
2006-08-22 04:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Natural and Spiritual 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold your head up high,. look in peoples eyes and be proud as you have nothing to be ashamed of. talk to the boy about it or just ignore the whole thing and pretend nothing has happed. GO TO CHURCH and dont quit your life just cause people gossip!!
2006-08-22 04:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by fireopal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act like you used to around the guy, and if anyone asks, just them that you aren't dating him. Quit stressing over it, it's not worth your time.
2006-08-22 04:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Catmmo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're stressing up because someone likes you.....
God damn it !!!! You should feel nice that someone cares about you.Its the best feeling ever girl.....why panic.
What kind of idiot are you??? I think you are too young to understand it.... am i right. You are a baby!!!
2006-08-22 05:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by Moy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the youth leader person that its all a front and that theres nothing there
2006-08-22 04:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by rumbz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oreder a pizza, watch a dvd and forget about that.
2006-08-22 04:46:33 · answer #8 · answered by ycaruss y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish my life was so simple that I worried about stuff like that... Stop stressing over stupid stuff! You'll be fine...
2006-08-22 04:47:23 · answer #9 · answered by ks_stud_2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go to church. God will help you grow up someday.
2006-08-22 04:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋