I suck at playing hard to get. I like to pour my heart out to the one I love. Me and my ex-girlfriend are still talking and seeing each other at least once a week. I love her so much and I want her back. Everytime we see each other she cries her heart out, and I hold her and tell her everything is okay. But tonight she said something like "Why do you have to be so easy? Can't you be an *** for once?" What the hell does that mean? Does she not want me to hold her and comfort her? I don't get it. We are still having sex too. She tells her friends that she loves me and wants to marry me and have my kids... but not right now.... What the hell?
2006-08-21 21:07:53 · 8 answers · asked by ks_stud_2005 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds IMMATURE! You sound as though you need to tell her to grow up! I would begin looking for another, frankly. She is also into game playing which is NEVER good.
2006-08-21 21:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's feeling guilty about something, and with you always being so nice it's getting to her she would feel better if you were an a** so then she could justify what ever it is that's making her feel this way. Try asking her if there is something bothering her, that she's ashamed of or feels guilty about that she's not telling you, It may take a little time and some consistency but they usually will give in eventually. good luck
2006-08-22 04:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by whitebeanner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just know you can have her if you want. you just need to figure out if thats it. the more things you have to do in your time that don't involve her will help you make that descision. sounds like shes into a little bit of games. not good. but just find some other things to occupy your time while you figure it out. it will make you more attractive to her too.
and the being easy part is she can have you if she wants. you must agree alot, let her take control of things. it's not always attractive. let her know you have plans once in a while when she calls. that will set the pace about even
2006-08-22 04:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should be lucky having you, but it seems that she is playing a game the way you write it. You seem to be a great guy. You should forget about her and find a gal who appreciates you for who you are and really like you.
All the best man..
2006-08-22 04:17:55 · answer #4 · answered by nsms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be bad to her. She likes the act bad but nice guy type of dude. Some women are like that. All the best man!
2006-08-22 04:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Baby_Apocalypse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes a lucky girl most guys are not so strait forward with the way they feel but it sounds to me like she is the type of girl that likes bad boys if you no what i mean
2006-08-22 04:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by tiff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a mature woman to love you. young girls love bad boys, until they had enough of them, then they will appreciated guys like you.
2006-08-22 04:16:20 · answer #7 · answered by Discovery 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being yourself, you sound great.
2006-08-22 04:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋