I am a well educated, 40 yrs age, married male. since chld hood, I never attracted towards girls or young ladies but I always feel tremendous attraction for grown up ladies at least 5-10 years elder than me.Similarly, I am also having great temptation for fatish fleshy obessed ladies. Please tell me IS IT ABNORMALITY or PERVERSION ? If any lady interested please mail me directly urplezuronly@sify.com
2006-08-21 21:00:21 · 25 answers · asked by vijay k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go & cunsult a Dr.
2006-08-29 15:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These could be a psychological problem, possibly when u were young , a kid rather, u might have great attraction for u r mother or elder lady in u r family, who might be very caring and loving to u, gradually this feeling might have grown into a psychological disorder, may because of insecurity in u r heart., its better to see some psychologist and get advise , it may help u....
second part of u r question about u r admiration of fat ladies, this is again a state of mind, which may or may not be interrelated but liking fat ladies is not bad at all !!!!
2006-08-21 21:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by dhansuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don`t you think you are too elder for attraction bcoz if you were
of 16 or 17 it might ok but 40 and still attraction that means you
don`t love your wife or you are not happy with her try to get fun in
life.
2006-08-21 21:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by asshi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a fetish stemming from childhood abuse by some corpulent matronly figure. An oedipus complex coupled with infidelity- hoo boy, you are screwed up!
2006-08-27 06:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sho Biz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This says to me you did not get the right kind of love from your mother. You need to get some counseling. if it were only 2 or 3 years it might be ok.
2006-08-21 21:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by vikingprincess1955 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r married then u r a siiner!bcoz even whan u r having a wife why cant u love her.
u r a rude husband to her as y think abt other ladies.
u need immediate counselling.
everything will be alright.
my best wishes.
2006-08-21 21:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by skr007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of a lot of older females could like the reality of having a youthful guy. same as an older guy could prefer to be considered with a youthful lady. no longer for me however. I lots choose adult adult males of my very own age team.
2016-11-05 08:58:39 · answer #7 · answered by sturms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 40 you yourself could not able to find answer to your problem. Its too late now to find solution Just continue
2006-08-21 21:14:56 · answer #8 · answered by narendra k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
40, that already IS elder and mature. To answer your question, you are not attracted to older women- you are just trying for PC points.
2006-08-21 21:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think is the matter of been matured at young age and not seen people at yo age level much inspirering
2006-08-21 21:07:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey are you nuts cheak a doc.
Sometimes it happens so but in young ages not at your age
2006-08-27 17:39:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋