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I have a self-consious problem, I guess...
I like chubby girls. I don't really know why, I suppose I just have a subconsious attraction to them or something...
But I know that this isn't normal for someone to like, and I feel terrible for liking them because I think that people will hate me and think I am a freak, especially my father.
What do i do?

Sorry for asking again, I accidentally deleted the first one...

2006-08-21 20:56:44 · 15 answers · asked by Nator P 1 in Health Mental Health

15 answers

Your not a freak .. have you ever thought that maybe you like a person for the person they are on the inside. There is nothing wrong with having a crush on a person that is overweight.

Hugs Mel

2006-08-21 21:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0 0

There is nothing wrong with liking chubby girls. Chubby girls are making a come back after years of the media portraying beauty as anorexic beanpoles. Just look at classic art, it often depicts full bodied women as beautiful.

2006-08-21 21:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by konala 3 · 0 0

OMG you are completely normal. Just because you like someone that doesn't fit with today's strict societal rules doesn't mean you are a horrible person. If you look through history the body types of men and woman change constantly. During the medieval times you were only good looking if you were heavy. I think that it is great that you do not look at a woman's size and decide shes not worth it. It sounds like you are looking into her soul and who she really is. If your friends and family make fun of you shame on them. I think that if you like her that is all that matters. Keep up your courage and do what you think is best for you and NOONE else!

2006-08-21 21:03:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

chubby girls are great. theres nothing wrong with you, unless by chubby you mean "unable to fit through a standard door". In art, from prehistoric times up to the invention of the camera, the women appeared a bit chubby by today's stick figure model standards. Your preference toward chubby women is biologically sound. in prehistoric times, the women with a bit more flesh on their bones were considered more fertile due to their ability to bear children then breast feed them, while the ultra thin women were considered scrawny and not good for having children with. if anything, the men who prefer women with no hips and stick arms and legs are freaks. theres nothing sexy about a woman who looks like a teenage boy wearing make up.

2006-08-21 21:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Stand-up Philosopher 5 · 0 0

1st, please be careful & don't delete the answers this time.

Now,to your question.

You are NOT a freak. You are attracted to the type & personality of the girl that you find attractive. You have nothing to be ashamed of.
If anyone gives you a hard time over this remember, they are the one with the problem - not you.
You just go on being you & don't change just to keep someone else happy.

I believe that you will find happiness someday soon.

2006-08-22 03:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ahhh...Truely the Rubenesque........No worries buddy, your cooler than most in fact. For the greater part of history the 'Fuller' figured 'Woman' was considered the finer end of beauty...

.....It is only the past 30 years of culture that has perpetuated the gaunt, underage, sickly figure of feminity.

...You my friend are Way Cool......

I married what I call a 'Frank Frazetta' woman....a fantasy artist of the 70's & 80's that truely had a grasp of what femininity was....

2006-08-21 21:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Todd's 3 · 0 0

there is nothing wrong with chubby girls!!! I feel u r asking this question just to get a rise out of people.. Didn't work on me dork

2006-08-21 21:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mary W 3 · 0 0

what's wrong with us chubby ones? there's nothing wrong with it really, a survey even showed that more guys nowadays prefer chubby girls than "srawny ones", why sould your father think you are a freak? unless of course you like someone who is obese (i hope you know the difference?) even then, even obese girls do deserve to be loved without discrimination you know?

2006-08-21 22:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by blue_raven 2 · 1 0

maybe the overweight females sense insecure approximately their looks and don't sense appealing around overweight adult males. females are greater emotional than adult males and for some reason it inhibits their strikes. This international is fixated on being skinny yet the two aspects are undesirable.

2016-12-11 13:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

I couldn't understand your problem. If you like chubby girls, there is no harm in it and if you like to lik them who stops you. Do what you want, stop worrying and looking left & right.

2006-08-21 21:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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