to someone from a chat room on AIM, they ALL seem to just plain ignore me or worse, block me. So, I'm somewhat overweight. Why do people have to treat me so bad?? :(
2006-08-21 20:40:45 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just know that you are beautiful on the inside and people who act that way obviously don't know what true beauty is. In the end, they are losing out.
Hugs Mel
2006-08-21 20:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey never mind, That shows that the people u r makin friends with are out for looks or appearances (which may be biased by magazines TV etc) next time do not just send ur pic to anyone, try knowin them first and there u can judge what kind f person they are. Then u can send them ur pic after judgin whether they r ur friends or are just sme shallow vain people. All the best, PS u can really meet some nice people ut there
2006-08-21 20:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by aasweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so everyone else had their say and suggested you should forget about every one.
I will say you should perhaps start swimming or walking a lot or perhaps get to eat some salad.. Not meaning to be offensive or anything, but it'll feel a hell of a lot better if you do.
I go up and down in weight myself and it isn't too difficult to lose weight.. obviously you are going to want to and if you listen to this lot above me you might never actually do it but if you just listened to me and started swimming twice a week? It takes a year only and then you'll be looking back at these people and perhaps understand their responses werent any good for you. mine is but it takes some effort. everything takes a bit of effort.
2006-08-22 12:02:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
one answer: find better chat rooms. Guys that like stick figure girlfriends don't tend to last long anyway. There are plenty of guys out there who like real girls!
You could also quit the chat rooms and go find a real, physically present guy. That way, you know what you're getting and they know what they're getting straight off. Offline relationships are healthier anyway.
2006-08-21 20:49:03 · answer #4 · answered by purrr:) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, get out of the chat rooms and go do something of worth. I'm sure you're a better person than they are anyways. Forget about it.
2006-08-21 20:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chatrooms are a place of fantasy. everyone either thinks they are the best looking person or that they are talking to the best looking person. they are shallow places usually reserved for cyber sex. if you feel good about yourself forget about those people. obviously there is no mutual connection.
2006-08-21 20:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just shallow people, just forget about them. it doesn't worth.
you are probably a better person than they are and as long you are at ease with yourself is o.k. just don't trouble yourself for things like that because there are more important things in life that deserve your attention
2006-08-21 20:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by IRI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of shallow people out there, especially in chat rooms.
2006-08-21 20:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet Jane...I will check your pic out and give you my quasi-professional opinion. Honestly, your at least pretty confident and personality is at least 51% of things...
I bet you're alright...
2006-08-21 20:50:45 · answer #9 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just expecting to bag a supermodel despite them self's look like they were beaten with a red hot pitch fork.
2006-08-21 20:48:36 · answer #10 · answered by theswarm666x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋