why is it that the guys that make you fall for them with just one email,one hello, one hug, or one kiss are the ones that make you cry in the end...but the ones that are sweet and nice and truly love me have no effect?(add me myspace.com/startsomedrama)
2006-08-21 19:27:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because, the first guys know they can get girls by smooth language, and funny lines...and they probably look good, and have exiting lives. They're probably bad asses, and keep us on our toes. But they do this to many women, and hey, they know we'll still love them even though they make us cry...so y not? It means they don't have to think as much, because we'll forgive them.
but most nice guys are boring. They don't have any game. They don't know how to keep us on our toes, and no exiting stories. They might be funny...and are smart, and might be able to take care of us; but we're not looking to hook up with daddy; we want a guy daddy will learn to love eventually...for now...so that's why nice guys finish last...because those ones who couldn't get a date or laid when in highschool, are the one's who get to slip an engagement ring on a pretty girl on graduation day, that's already paid off. Or hey, nice guys....u might get a mercy **** if an easy chick knows u have money...but u'll finish last, and end up with quality. But this is y girls date fast guys when we're young, and settle down with nice guys when we're on our way to being old...because assholes ain't the marrying kind; but they sure are fun!
2006-08-21 19:41:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your mind you have a vision of the "perfect guy". He's usually wild, uncontrollable, and the one that already has a million girls drooling at his heals. When your young, guys are like the latest fad... you want what everyone else wants. As you get older, you'll quit looking and start feeling. You'll realize that perfect hair and a criminal record aren't really what you had thought. Get a head start on those around you, take a deep look into the eyes of, possible a guy friend, who you know is a decent guy. Look deep into his soul, dig around and find out whats in there. Usually the real "perfect guy" for you is the one thats watched you cry over the bad guys.
2006-08-22 02:35:46 · answer #2 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have more attraction to "bad guys". Women have a deep attraction mechanism that's triggered by men who behave indifferent, superior, cocky, the list goes of "bad" behavior. "Bad boys" often create inviting and intoxicating forms of drama - often perceived as playfulness, sexuality and fun.
Woman don't feel that powerful gut level attraction for "nice guys"
who chase after them, dote on them and kiss up to them. A woman might like the experience of the "nice guy" doing nice things, but it doesn't create attraction or a connection with the woman. Being too "nice" sends a signal to the "deep" part of the mind that tells you "this person isn't desirable and is lower status".
People don't value what they can have too easily, whether they admit it or not.
2006-08-22 02:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by Isabelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know.. the one you like ends up liking someone new after some time. maybe because the one who makes you drool are the playas, it's more of our choice actually. on the other hand, the nice guys are the ugly ones so even they're sweet and all, you can't find the switch in your heart to fall for them. hahahaha lol i'm just kidding here alright... we meet bad guys because we haven't met the one for us, they're not bad at all, juts not for you, or else, it's the end of your fairytale if you've met the good one right away. it's like meeting bunch of frogs before the prince ;)
2006-08-22 04:45:02 · answer #4 · answered by поцелуй 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm friends with "saints" and "sinners", and yes my buddies that lie, cheat and basically don't care do date the most, generally. I think because, frankly, they are able to be more exciting to women. Why? Because if you don't take any woman seriously it's easier to play the "game". You stay loose. Many of my "nice" friends end up being too shy or not really being themselves because they take women, along with interactions with women, too seriously. This ends up turning off the girl. So in terms of how it affects you is that it's harder to find those guys because more of them make themselves invisible to you compared to the other type of guy. Just a hypothesis...
2006-08-22 02:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Richard B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS!!! LISTEN UP!!!!
Listen to what these women are telling you.
NICE GUYS DON'T GET LAID!!!
Ever notice how all the hot girls keep complaining about guys they hooked up with who turned out to be assholes? You could be that guy! The guy who has his way with her one night, then leaves the next day and is never heard from again. Or maybe hooks up with her for a few weeks, then she finds out he has another girl on the side.
Google up Leykis 101 - you'll be glad you did.
2006-08-22 03:16:39 · answer #6 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's easy women say they want nice guys but in reality they can't stand them. NO CHALLENGE!!the good are always there for you and you don't want that. YOu want the guy that you have to work at to make him love you and be there for you. when it doesn't work out you go crying to the good guys and they give you their shoulder to cry on. then the next jerk comes around and you leave the "GOOD FRIEND" for the jerk!!
2006-08-22 02:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's true, but for some reason, that didn't happen to me. My boyfriend was the one that was worth my time when I needed a talk or anything.
2006-08-22 02:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by *a∙e∙r∙i∙t∙h* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of the things i shall ask when i die...and i will also put this question in the book i am going to write...."mysteries of life...a compilation of the worlds most fascinating questions that nobody seems to be able to answer" if anyone knew the answer it wouldnt be an issue
2006-08-22 02:32:31 · answer #9 · answered by do_sctc145 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean, why do mean hot guys break your heart and why do nice ugly guys not turn you on? The answer's in my question.
2006-08-22 02:36:32 · answer #10 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋