I just met a great guy, good catch, and I really enjoy talking and spending time with him. He likes me but I have Zero physical attraction.
2006-08-21 18:55:27 · 42 answers · asked by sexy.cece 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn! you got a big booty ce-ce! What was the question?
2006-08-21 19:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kindashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you say you have zero physical attraction then you are a liar. He can't be a great guy, a good catch, and you would be enjoying talking to him and spending time with him if you didn't have a physical attraction to him as well. For whatever reason you are just denying it - or you are not seeing it for some reason. However, you would not be interested in him if it wasn't there.
2006-08-21 19:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what you expect from dating. If you expect to have a relationship or have sex and get romantically involved NO you should not date him because it will not work out if there is no physical attraction. You have to consider how he feels about it too and what he expects from dating. Let me rephrase what i am trying to say you should spend time with him because you enjoy his company but you should clarify that you want to be friends and don't let him jump into conclusions and then get hurt emotionally from spending time with you and then loose him as a friend too. But what i have said is not 100 % accurate because if you think might work out for you to have a relationship without the physical attraction it sure might and it has. You probably seen the movie Hitch where ugly guys had relationship with pretty women. Love has no boundary. You just have to consider whether what you have falls into that category and his personality surpasses the value of physical attraction.
2006-08-21 19:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by Best_Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u think hes just plain ugly or you just dont have sexual feelings towards him? cause it is important to be physically attracted to someone to be in a relationship with them but its hard to find someone that you really enjoy being around. If hes really that great of a guy and he treats you like you want to be treated then the physical part with come eventually because if you truely care about all of those things then the more you spend time with him and the more your realize how great he is then all those other feelings will come naturally
2006-08-21 19:07:07 · answer #4 · answered by me m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call. I would never date a girl with a lame personality. I need someone I can talk to A LOT. But honestly looks mean a lot too. I couldn't date a girl that I thought was just flat out ugly or obese or something. My standards are a little too high though which is why I'm usually single. I say give him a chance. Girls seem to be different, I never saw a girl who cared that much about looks. It's usually just that the good looking guys are more confident and cocky and popular.
2006-08-21 19:03:22 · answer #5 · answered by mwells0629 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is not a concern to me as long as the little one in my heart thinks of that pretty girl, who may not be beautiful BUT I LIKE.
Don't ask me what are those that attract me. I develop an interest once I start interacting. Again I cannot say why I like/dislike.
In a nutshell, liking or disliking is an individual's feeling which cannot be controlled by any factor. Don't worry about it. Just continue to what u have, but be cautious. When in doubt at any particular instance, get it clarified in a one-to-one discussion and take a decision.
2006-08-21 20:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by good_intelligent_engineer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No physical attraction can be built on but probably not to an extent that will keep you together. If you have fun and are comfortable together i see no reason to change it just because you don't have sexual spark. That could grow or may not but it sounds like this guy would be a great friend either way. good luck
2006-08-21 21:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man that sounds like me. I dont think im handsome girls say i am now that im older but i usaually end up with a girl like u. Well u keep getting dogged by those playboys out there and then the guy who u said was a catch will have found a girl that would give him a chance then u will be all alone.
2006-08-21 19:01:38 · answer #8 · answered by Darius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, the best kind of guy to have is a guy that is attracted to your personality. Of course, he will see you in a totally different way... you think you're ugly he thinks you're the hottest girl alive. Give the guy a chance... my girl gave me a chance and we're going on a year on September 7. You never know what is in store for you until you go for the gold. Give the man a chance, it could be the best decision of your life.
2006-08-21 19:02:48 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although personality is definitely the most important thing, its hard to be intimate with someone you are not attracted to. I think thats why most people complain that they don't have sex after marriage, because the physical attraction is not there.
Love+sex=great relationship.
2006-08-22 06:42:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though attraction is very important, personality is everything. One can look like Jessica Alba but if she is a *****, then it detracts from her good looks. Looks get one interested in you, but personality is what keeps one interested. However, one can be plain Jane and still be attractive if she has a good personality and a joy to be around. On the other hand, if she is ugly as sin or unkempt in her appearance, it gets difficult to see past it and focus on her personality.
2006-08-21 19:08:28 · answer #11 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋