I can understand..is she being in control of me.....it seems that only she is having fun out of it...
2006-08-21 18:51:48 · 50 answers · asked by Lambada 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably not about control. i only insist on being on top when it's the only way i can...u know :) not necessarily that you are a bad lover, but every body is different. sometimes, with some guys, you simply need to be on top to make IT happen. stop thinking too much and enjoy! i thought guys liked us on top!
2006-08-21 18:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by sexy law chick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that having a good sex life you must have open communication with your partner. I have been with the same man for 9 years now, and the key to us remaining happy sexually. I s for us to allow are self to tell one another what we like and dislike. If she always wants to be on top is most likely that is the easiest position for a girl to have a orgasm. So I would talk her into a couple of different positions but include the top for last. Good luck..
2006-08-21 19:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by ashloveus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being on top allows her to have control over the movements. This gives her the chance to enhance her own pleasure. Besides, most girls are under the impression that ALL men LOVE having their girl be on top.
If you don't like it, roll over. If she looks like she's not enjoying it as much as she would on top, ask her what you can do to make it better. Talking during sex is healthy. Theres always room for improvement. Who doesn't want better sex?
2006-08-21 18:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to bimbodoctor up there. When she isn't paying attention, stick in her pooper.
Actually I think women like it on top because then can control how deep anything goes. I would get bored after awhile, but I say it's better that the woman do the work honestly.
You can always toss her over the side and get her from behind. Yay baby!
2006-08-21 19:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by hondapride67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't like girl on top? Um... unless you're talking about her being on top while you eat her out, you should be enjoying it too...
In fact, that's the lazy way to get a girl off. Since she's moving herself exactly the way she wants to move, you just have to provide her some "resistance" to work off of and bam! She goes. And it should be pleasurable for you as well.
Then after she goes usually she'll say it's your turn, and you can have her do anything you want to get you off. If she's like okay I'm done and that's it... well then I'd suggest you go hook up with someone else that cares more about you.
2006-08-21 19:18:58 · answer #5 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first she can manipulate her body to the position that gives her the most pleasure. Also she can control the depth of penetration. If her being on top is bothering you talk to her, i believe you will find she is trying hard to see that you both receive pleasure from the act. If you really want to turn her on reverse her, with her facing your feet and have her bend forward with her hands on the bed. lay back and enjoy the visual stimulation. after she is satisfied turn her over, put her ankles on your shoulders and drill for oil. The thing you should always remember it is giving pleasure that promots getting pleasure.
2006-08-21 19:20:12 · answer #6 · answered by doc3986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U complaining bout that?anyway no probe.some guys like u dont like gf on top.anyway next time when she is on top of u,give her a very gooooooooooooooooooood smooch on her lips(a french kiss).u can see that as u kiss her she will turn around and u will b on her top.this is possible only if ur kiss is that good.GOT IT MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
though i'm only 16,in my 3-4yrs of experience this is the best remedy against a gf on ur top.i have been successful in this as my kiss gives my gf that much sexyyyyyyyyyyyyy feeling.
i like it both the way.
2006-08-21 19:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Frank Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a control thing to me but it could also be that it feels better when she is on top. Could it be that you don't know what you are doing? You might want to sit her down and talk about it.
2006-08-21 18:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by livetoromance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women can only have an orgasm from intercourse if they are in a position where they are able to control the speed, pressure, ect.
And I doubt you are the only one having fun... enjoy the veiw and maybe play with her breasts.
2006-08-21 18:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by Tina K 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Its not about control, obviously that position is what pleases her the most. Tell her you are not being satisfied and try to find a position you guys both enjoy.
2006-08-21 18:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋