Girls I need to know from you honestly. I am virgin guy, 28. When I had a chat with one gal she laughed at me when I told that I am virgin still. What does this mean? Is it wrong to be virgin. What do girls think if any guy honestly says he is virgin? I got very angry with her behaviour. Do all girls think the same way? I feel proud that I am virgin and sexually perfect. In 1-2 yrs, I am going to get married. I want to be a good and perfect hubby for my wife. Need your replies gals out there.
2006-08-21 18:48:19 · 38 answers · asked by still virgin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are really a virgin, I think that is very special. It is good you are not loose like many of your male counterparts. LOL, it's rare you hear a man that is of your age is a virgin. But I think it is attractive. You actually have something to give to your wife when your married, other than aids. People think it is not cool to be a virgin. But it is. It shows alot about your character, morality, spirituality and integrity. It shows you stand for something and that sex means something to you. Which is true. Sex is important and it is a very serious thing. But people don't take it seriously. That's why GOD never intended for ppl to have sex outside of marriage. Believe me, I speak from experience. Stay a virgin until you are married. I think it is sexy and it shows you have self-control.
2006-08-21 18:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Tonya 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
i highly respect anyone that can stay a virgin these days. but from my experience the guys as well as girls i know that are still virgins, are sometimes a little off, not very socially inept. i'm not trying to be mean but most are not virgins by choice but are virgins because they just never had a serious enough relationship and therefore dont have alot of the experience others do (my friends range from 25-20). so knowing people like my friends i can understand why most people would be surprised by it and why people laugh because it is different.
hope you find yourself a virgin to marry in the next few years and that all goes well with you. good luck :)
2006-08-21 18:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is Fantastic. First of all you are not alone.
It might not be First Date conversation though. However if they laugh, you know they are not the one for you. You will get to go out with quality women who have more purpose in life.
Some women who have been around might think it is foolish because they don't recognize a good thing.
You will be able to tell the loose ones from the ones who also have decided to wait.
You will date nicer girls because the girls who lack morals and self-esteem will go elsewhere.
You will choose a better Wife and you will have a much better than average chance of a Happy Marriage
You will love your Wife and you will have a special relationship with only her.
You won't be distracted by memories of other situations good or bad, to ruin your bond with your Wife.
You will raise your children better and they will feel the true bond of a marriage.
You won't be bringing any sexually transmitted Diseases into your marriage.
Your whole life will have a deeper meaning because your vision will be clearer to the Truth in many situations.
The sin of impurity from promiscuity and fornication, po rn and masterbation,
gives people Spiritual Blindness.
You are not alone. The girls who do not laugh are the ones to date.
You know what I'm Talking about.
Find a group of friends from a Church's Young Adult Group. That is a better crowd to hang around with. I know many Catholic Churches have these Groups and likely many other churches do also. Choose your friends wisely.
God Bless You, ;-)
In reading some of the other posts I see that people are correctly thinking that your being a virgin until you get married is a gift to your future Wife.
It is also a Gift To your Self. To have the Woman you love enough to bond yourself to for life to be the only one to share your body with.
The Experience thing is a lot of bologna. You can learn together and you will both be happy with each other.
2006-08-21 18:54:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
People assume that everyone wants to get laid, have sex that is, as often as possible - especially men. But obviously it is not true. So if you TRULY want to stay a virgin until marriage, then good for you. If you are a virgin and you want to have sex, but haven't been able to for over a year, well then you might want to consider getting some assistance with your situation.
This is why the girl laughed at you, because she thought that after ten years of trying, you couldn't get any sex with anyone, which would be funny if it was the case, but it isn't. But being a virgin isn't anything to be proud about, just like it is to not be a virgin. Accept whatever choices people have made. Otherwise you will be obnoxious like that girl.
2006-08-21 19:03:16 · answer #4 · answered by hondapride67 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. i think that it is awesome and i am highly impressed not only that you are still a virgin but that you want to be a good and perfect hubby for your wife. in todays society it is almost expected that everyone have sex as soon as possible but that doesn't mean that people have to. i waited until i was ready (although not for marriage) and so should you. if a girl has a problem with you being a virgin then that is her problem not yours. however, expect that some girls may be shocked that you have waited but they should not be rude or laugh, only curious. congratulations and good luck with your wife.
2006-08-21 18:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by burn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is no problem to be virgin at this age. On the contrary it is a good thing to wait until you get married. I believe that every girl wants to be the first girl in the man life. It is a good thing dude. Do not be upset if someone laughed at you because they didn't have sth better to do.
2006-08-21 19:10:49 · answer #6 · answered by Eve 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
My God, please don't be embarrassed about being a virgin, and defiantly don't be embarrassed because some girl with obviously alot of experience laughed at you. It is not wrong to be a virgin, and I think that it is the best gift that you can give your Bride. She will never have to wonder if you are comparing her to any other women that you would have been with. She will never have to worry that you have diseases or illegitimate children out there. I think that whoever you marry is LUCKY to have a husband that cared enough about her before they even met to save himself only for her. I wish that I would have been as smart as you to have saved my virginity for my husband. I would have had alot less heartache and made alot less poor decisions in my life. God Bless you and your future with your lucky Bride!
2006-08-21 18:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by The Nag 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am not a girl ,but I must say that I am 38 and still a virgin and I am proud of it!The woman you are going to marry is a lucky girl for having a husband live in clean and decent single lifestyle!So what is the big deal of being virgin!Experinced in sex does add extra merits to your personality!Do you think you must salute all prostitutes and gigolos for countless sex experiences?Those girtls laughing about your virginity are stupid!in the bible,premarital sex is against the law of GOD and submit it after marriage!Cheer up dude, you are blessed!
2006-08-21 18:56:39 · answer #8 · answered by tutax 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
wait until your 30, and watch the movie: 30 year old virgin. lolz
i'm 24 and i actually stopped having sex. i realized that i was only commiting adultry on my future wife. society brain washed everyone into thinking its "natural" and "normal" to screw around. and you are missing out when you don't. its a sack of bull. i stopped for 2 years and i feel great. sex is kind of like an addiction, the more you do it, the more you need.
it is destroying our family structure
- single parents
- adultry and cheating
- child growing up without a functional family
- once child grow up, they duplicate the problem
- STD is higher than ever, can't even kiss a girl because stistics show 1 out of 3 have herpies.
- girls are spoiled in this society, they have what I called "sexual currency" with them splitting their legs and look hot, they can get $1,000 dinner, to diamond rings and gucci bags.
2006-08-21 19:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
baby, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin, coming form a 22 year old virgin. A lot of women have this notion of wanting an "experienced" man so that sex can be enjoyable and they can ge theirs. And that there experience can be "right" But my mind set is this, i would not mind losing my virginity to another virgin because we can experience together. not all women would laugh. if fact, i admire you
2006-08-21 19:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by silentasalamb 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋