I'm totally afraid of penis, I can't even stand the sight of it, or even think about it. I'm getting to the age where sex is expected and guys expect me to make a move to rub their penis or give them a ******** or even full sex. The thought of touching a penis or inserting it into my body is horrific to me! What's wrong with me? What do I do? I don't know how to explain it, I just think a penis is awkward, ugly, and disgusting! I'm afraid of it!
Note: I'm not a lesbian and I enjoy men and I have no attraction to women, so that's not the issue. I've had men fondle me before and make out and stuff like that, I just can't stand the sight of the penis.
2006-08-21 18:47:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you actually had any contact with penises yet, or is it just the idea?
When I was a teenager, I was terrified of seeing and touching a naked penis, and got myself into quite a state of anxiety about it.
Then I went on a date, and rather unexpectedly the guy in question unzipped his pants and showed me his penis, asking me to rub it and suck it. Much to my surprise, it was actually really nice, and not dirty, or unfeasibly huge, or hairy, or any of the things I've been dreading. The skin was soft and velvety, and tasted clean and sweet.
I was still scared of intercourse, but some time later I experienced that as well, and there was nothing really to worry about.
In other words, once I got a bit of real-life experience, I gradually discovered it wasn't ugly or scary at all.
You probably just need more time to adjust to it all and get used to it. If you are over-imaginative and a natural-born worrier like me, you may be over-reacting and working yourself up for nothing.
However, if you've already tried it and hated it, then that's a whole separate issue. I think we need a few more details.
2006-08-21 19:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are suffering from pinnis-o-phobia. No need to worry, as the time passes by u will overcome the fear. Try to indulge more in foreplay & be high on it. do not think too much about your fears & try to have full pleasure.
2006-08-21 19:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by arnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to look or touch it . Look at the man face and when it peneterates you you will feel happy and gradually you will be very eager to see it perhaps kiss it.
2006-08-21 18:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes closed i swear once you've tried it you will want more and more and more!!!And be like what was i so scared of how silly!!
2006-08-21 18:53:05 · answer #4 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is something going on with you that has happend a long time ago what was it
the names ace_71385@yahoo.com
2006-08-21 19:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by ace_71385 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be u have never had a chat with men like me
2006-08-21 18:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
theres nothing wrong with you, but it will lower your chances of getting married
2006-08-21 18:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to suck it up and suck it or **** it. Otherwise your only option will be women or hook up with a guy who can't have sexual intercourse.
2006-08-21 18:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by livetoromance 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Blondie is spot on.
2006-08-21 18:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by VL MAN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you still have some more growing up to do, you'l change though
2006-08-21 21:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋