Do you guys consider flirting to be cheating?
2006-08-21 18:05:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Cuz last night, I was talking to my boyfriend...and he asked me this...and when I said I didn't consider it cheating...he was surprised...but I was like, it depends on if you know your limits...and he asked what mine were and I was like, "Well, if they were to come up to me and say hi, then I'd be like, 'hey.' But if they were to try to get fresh...and get to close or try an get my number that'd be a bit much..." And he was like, "Ok..." And then I asked him...and he said he did....because it would lead to other things...But then I was like, "I love you, and you have my word, nothing is going to happen." By the way...he just started college...I'm barely a senior...And thats why the topic came up...since he is going away or whatever...
2006-08-21 18:18:26 · update #1
No.......I as a guy wouldn't consider "flirting" to be cheating . However, i am a firm believer in the saying : "do unto other's ...only as you would have them do unto you". If you can't take it ...then don't give it .
Flirting to me is just another form of keeping one's self-esteem in-tact.. and i have no prob with that . Just don't over-do-it ! And get your rump home on-time . lol
2006-08-21 18:25:32 · answer #1 · answered by anthony J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...
Does it bother your boyfriend? Some guys it's no big deal, some guys it hurts. There are always guys who think...Hell, she's flirting with me right in front of her boyfriend...she must not care for him too much...I think I'll hit on her a little when he's not around.
Also, would it bother you if he flirted with other girls? Hope you're not a hypocrite...
2006-08-22 01:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but it could lead to more than just flirting which is cheating. It is also disrespectful.
2006-08-22 01:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...
2006-08-22 01:09:35 · answer #4 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me first flirting next cheating , that's what my ex did. so now i ended up alone broken heart , while shes with that guy.
2006-08-22 01:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but if u like the guy ur dating then u shouldnt be flirting.he might think its cheating
2006-08-22 01:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by single and proud 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you ask someone to lay down and take their clothes off!
2006-08-22 01:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
borderline there...very close to it.
but i do have to agree with sarahsbubble, it IS very disrespectful.
i wouldnt want to be with anyone that will disrespect me like that.
2006-08-22 01:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. But make sure your partner is comfortable with it.
2006-08-22 01:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-08-22 01:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by kitty katty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋