ok there was this girl in high school. best friends for about 3 years but honestly i was definitly in love with her. then we started dating. it was really slow, we're both unexperienced, and we were friends for so long so we just held hands and kissed and went on dates and stuff. She was the innocent christian girl type, so i didnt want to pressure her into anything. after about 3 weeks she broke up with me and would never tell me why. I'm like 99% sure she A. Got bored because i didnt make a move, or B. Just liked another guy. I really tried to talk to her about it, and try to work it out but she insisted that she simply just didn't have feeling for me anymore and just wanted to be friends. It really pissed me off, I didn't want to be her friend and we stopped talking for a long time. Then I started talking to her again, and we were friends, but honestly I odn't think she cares that I exist. this is almost 2 years ago but how does someone go from your best friend to your gf to nothing
2006-08-21 17:56:56 · 5 answers · asked by mwells0629 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I started dating someone else, and I like her a lot but I don't think I'm ever gonna get this other girl out of my head. I used to hang out with her like everyday, her family loves me they see me all the time and ask why I don't come over anymore and they invite me to family parties and stuff but it hurts to much to go there. She told me I was the only person she kept in touch with after we graduated from high school and went away to college of all of her friends. And one day I decided to do an experiment and not IM or call her, and see if she would ever initiate the convo with me, and its been like 2 months and she hasn't so I know she doesn't care about me at all I'm trying to forget about her but really its so hard. Also I'm going away for a year to study abroad, so I'm not going to see her anymore. My question is just for girls what do you think th etruth is about what she thinks of me? Is she lying to me? What does she want from me? Mixed signals like crazy!!
2006-08-21 18:00:46 · update #1
could you expand on that "I just don't have feelings for you anymore" thing?
Men don't understand it. So explain it to us!!!!! If I like a girl, I would only stop liking her if there was a reason to stop liking her!!! Because there was a reason that I liked her. Like I personalities clicked I thought she was beautiful, she made me like who I was when I was with her, you know? all that good sh*t. so if nothing changes how can you change your opinion? what do you base your opinions on in the first place? I'm really confused by that!!
2006-08-21 18:10:24 · update #2
Sadly, it rarely works when you go from best friend to bf/gf. There are exceptions, but you hear more that don't work out.
You listed A) and B) - don't think it's either one of those. Maybe C) she doesn't really know WHAT she wants and she's decided not to string you along while she figures it out. My guess is she broke up with you for the exact reason she said - she doesn't have "boyfriend" feelings for you.
It's hard, I know, but the sooner you accept that this is over; the sooner you can find a girl who IS into you :-) I predict that a year from now...if you seriously accept that this is over....you'll have a new girl in your life and this pain will just be a memory. Good luck to you!
2006-08-21 18:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she just doesnt like you like that anymore. I broke up with this guy out of no where and i never knew how to explain it to him. I just didnt like him anymore things just changed. I think you should just let it go. thats good that you still kept contact with him but i think u guys are not gonna be anything more then just normal friends. Don't worry theres gonna be another girl that fits you perfectly.
2006-08-22 01:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by lilbabigurlb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea what happened there. my best guy friend and i have been friends for seven years now, and we dated but it didn't last that long. the thing is he's still in my life and he gives me helpful advice and things like that, but i don't see how she could go from being your best friend to your gf to nothing!?! thats weird!!
i still have feelings for my best friend (guy), but i don't know if i would act on them or not? we still say " i love you" to eachother but whatever happens- happens!
2006-08-22 01:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by Awesome girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you cross the line from friend to girlfriend there's no going back.
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You're right in thinking that she doesn't give a damn about you now. You are a one-time friend and that's it.
2006-08-22 01:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry he wont
2006-08-22 01:05:27 · answer #5 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋