Ok am 14 and I think am wierd because I think I have fallen in love with a girl that is 10 (she looks 12) and I dont know what to do I havent sceen her in 3 months and every night I go to sleep thinking about her and every day I do the same. I tell my self all the time to stop doing this but I cant and my stomach pretty much turns inside out and I litterily get sick when I think about her. Shes my cousin's sisters friend and she told me she also liked me (she rubbed my back sometimes) and that made it worse for me she also lives across town so I probley wont see it for a while man this sucks am afraid if I see her it will start back and get worse. I also just asked this a second ago but did not go into detail. By the way am to embarressed to tell any one and I think I need counceling. any suggesstions?
2006-08-21 17:54:54 · 12 answers · asked by Zach b 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
They're right my young friend. Too young to even know what its' about, that's why it's so confusing. Take it easy, go out with buddies, go play some football. Soon enough girls will consume your life and you'll be even more freaking confused. Trust me, take it easy, enjoy being young and don't say I didn't warn you.
2006-08-21 18:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bub, ur not weird ur as normal as any 14 yr old ok we all go through this kind of stuff so dont beat ur-self up ok ,It's kool just chill and take it 1day at a time . ur in school and u'll probably meet some1 soon that will make u feel even crazier ,so don't trip ok and don't lose tabs on her either try to keep in touch with her she probably has a phone tell ur cuz 2 re-lay a message but still shop around for some 1 closer to home . ocasionaly chk on her though dont chase after her u'll scare her take it easy. Life will get better and the age thing ain't nothen but a year or two not like 10 then u have to worry. Get her # or c if she has a computer ok & chat w/ her but remember don't rush it. and c wat happens ok kool
2006-08-22 01:10:24 · answer #2 · answered by Some Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 14 and your hormones are beginning to rage out of control, which is normal.
School will be starting soon and you'll be around lots of girls your own age that you'll become infatuated with so the girl you're keen on now will become just a fond memory of your "youth".
I don't think you need counseling for having a crush on a younger girl at all. Now if you have thoughts of hurting her in any way, then I'd say you do need help.
Relax kiddo, you're growing up and what you're feeling is weird, but it's still normal. It's what you do about your feelings that says a lot...
2006-08-22 01:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude your 14 you don't know love you know lust and feeling s for the girl, two different things. No you don't need counseling, you need a dirt bike or a hobby or something. Stop being a dumbass about this chick. It's called hormones welcome to being a teenager. I'd worry more about getting outdoors. tear yourself away from the xbox and go camping with some friends or something, without her!!!
2006-08-22 05:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, dude. relax. i promise you this won't matter to you at all in seven years. Or seven months, or seven weeks.
Relax. Concentrate on school, friends, church, whatever it is you do.
If you still like 10 year olds when you're 17, then worry. But age differences matter less as you get older. If you still have the hots for her when she's 18 and you're 22, then have at it.
2006-08-22 01:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by alannabear34 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's love, I'm afraid, but puppy love. Everybody has it at one time or another. You're young, Your emotions are pulling and pushing at you till you don't know what's next. That's puberty, and these feelings are perfectly normal. Don't worry about it. Don't stress about it. It's okay, it really is. In time it will pass and you'll see another girl who makes your stomach go flip flop. It's honestly okay, I promise. That's what puberty is all about.
2006-08-22 01:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 at this age you should try to concentrate on ur career and not on love.May be you will feel bad about what i have said,but its true.
Untill unless you are something you wont get what you want.So concentre on your studies.
2006-08-26 00:43:51 · answer #7 · answered by NANI 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you do your homework and go to bed school starts early in the am does it not get you mind on your education or else you too will end up on yahoo the rest of your poor life is that what your goal is??????
2006-08-22 01:02:47 · answer #8 · answered by vanessa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about love U too young to deal with it.
2006-08-22 01:02:41 · answer #9 · answered by Charly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good try "zach b". your therapist knows that your age is substantially more than 14, but enjoys your flights of fancy, eh? :-)
2006-08-22 01:09:48 · answer #10 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋