is it normal in a relationship that you dont argue?

Question

ive been dating this guy in 4 months.we always had a good time.we watch movies,eat,play basketball.we talked serious conversation about family,past relationship.its just we get along.

Answer 1

i don't think normal is the right word....it's just not that common....my husband and I get along beautifully!!!! some people just fit together perfectly............................

Answer 2

No one can really say what is normal or abnormal in a relationship because everyone interacts differently. I will say though if you never argue that your relationship must be pretty boring.
You must like the same things . Being a like and getting along so well is great for a platonic relationship, but it won't work as bf & gf for long because there is no real passion or chemistry there.

Answer 3

it's not normal or abnormal. perhaps you toe jut get along so well that there is no need to argue a relation ship is about give and take, and equality, maybe he learned a lesson from past relations ships or got help of some kind,

try not to dwell on whether your fighting or not any just enjoy yourself with him
chances are you'll get in one argument or more before it's over or before to long

Answer 4

Maybe you just get along. Maybe one of you is passive aggressive, and won't take a stand over little things that aren't worth arguing over.

I don't know if it's normal, or abnormal, but just because people don't argue doesn't mean they REALLY agree all the time.

You'll have to wait and see.

Answer 5

four months is too soon, but it is possible to not argue. disagree, yes. no two people will always agree, and sometimes one can get a bit cranky for various reasons. but it doesn't have to lead to an argument. it helps if one bears in mind most things are not worth arguing over, to be willing to reach compromises, and to have very good communication...use logic during discussions, approach problems before they get too big, be honest and open, but don't let your feelings stop you from seeing what each other is trying to express, and voila! no fights!

Answer 6

My ex-wife and I rarely argued and we were divorced after 8 years with maybe 1 argument. You can't base your relationship on other peoples relationships. Yours might turn out great. One hint of advice through my mistakes.....Communication is very important in a relationship.

Answer 7

Thats still very early yet. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a little over 7 months and argued once. Prepare yourself for when it does happen because it most likely will.

Answer 8

Yes, Normal

Answer 9

4 months is very early but congradulations to your success


but I will say dont change a thing about your relationship. Relationships usually go wrong when you dont feel appreciated or loved or if you stop getting the attention you use to. If this happens just don't be mean and dont be these things
WOMAN/WOMEN

W-Winers
O-Over Emotional
M-Money Hungrey
A-Angry all the time
E-Envious
N-Naggers

He may be these things but try to understand men are so diffrent
MEN/MAN

M-Messy
A-A$#-H^#s
E-Egotistic
N-Nonchallant

Answer 10

I don't think it unnormal. Me and my husband dated for a year and didnt argue and now we're married and the things we argue about are silly. Like little things like "i love you more, no i love you more". Things like that!!! I am fortunate to have found someone so compatible with. Hold onto yours!

Answer 11

oh lucky you. but it's only been 4 months. so enjoy it while you can. relationships are hard and there are bound to be some things you will disagree on. but if it keeps going on as a peaceful partnership...then lucky you girl. this is a keeper.