I was really excited when I first read the invitation, coz it means that I will be able to meet my old friends.
But then, it turns out to be a NIGHTMARE, coz I realize that all of my friends will bring their bf/gf. n I'll come alone since I'm single.
Also, it's possible to meet my ex bf, n he will bring his gf. WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2006-08-21 17:35:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Go with your head held high with pride. If anyone ask about your beau, tell them you are too busy right now for a boyfriend, you are doing everything you want and you are loving the single life. Make THEM want to be in YOUR shoes girl. You don't need a man to make yourself look good to everybody around you. You just need a cup of confidence, a dash of self-esteem, and a stunning sense of style. Hold your head up high and be yourself-an independent woman that is just dealing with you right now. The time will come when you will meet someone just for you. Don't rush it-just enjoy life one breathe at a time. Have fun at the wedding. PS Make your ex-beau wish he would have never let you go, if you see him.--But DON'T even go back to the chapters you have finished in the book of life.
2006-08-21 17:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your possible options: #1. Invite a male-friend to accompany you on the occassion. #2.just don't go & be faced with having to explain your abcence, or even a greater risk of losing a good-friend; #3: go alone with great confidence that no-matter what your situation is , your friend(s) would be overtaken with total-bliss & happiness just by you being there & them enjoying your very presence .
As for you appearing there "still single"... that could just as well turn-out to be a worthwhile topic & pleasant chit-chat among yourself & girlfriends . However, the most important thing is that as i said..you were there to share in her glorious -moments as the reliable friend that you obviously are .
2006-08-22 01:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by anthony J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would probably have a better time without a new BF hanging around. You would have to take a date who would not know anyone, and would feel "stranded" every time you walk away to catch up with someone.
Go solo, maybe there might be a single guy there feeling just as anxious as you to meet someone.
2006-08-22 03:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by BuffyFromGP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the wedding with your head held up high.
You don't know who you will run into, maybe next b/f. But as far as the ex b/f, hold that head up higher g/f.
Have yourself a ball and just think, if you are the only unattached young woman there, you are the only one that can watch the sexy guy's and not get into any trouble.
2006-08-22 00:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mary D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so worried about this? being single doesn't mean you've failed to bag a hubby. Beside, catching up with all your wonderful friends will occupy you enough that you don't want to worry about bf being left out. Go out and enjoy.
2006-08-22 00:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be special. Who cares? Bring a gf or a gay-fr. What's the big deal anyway.
2006-08-22 00:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by marindoll 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of your friends will prolly be jealous coz your still single...heck there's gotta be single guys at a wedding too...
2006-08-22 00:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by littleone101 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have fun and don't appear so desperate because you haven't got a boyfriend. I can't see why you are making such a mountain out of a molehill.
2006-08-22 02:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend- you will get through this. It will be okay. Stop being so hung up on yourself and be happy for your friend who is getting married
2006-08-22 01:38:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out, you do not need a boyfriend to look great & be proud.
They are an accessory that can be left at home.
2006-08-22 00:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋