my boyfriend is very polite and stuff and nevr does anything wrong. i love him more than anything but sometimes i wish he was a bit more sexually aggressive. he always asks me if its ok to kiss me and stuff like that. how can i get my point across without sounding slutty?
2006-08-21 17:26:56 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The next time he ask you to kiss him, put you're fingures to your mouth and tell him to be quiet. Then just grab him and give him some tongue. Then take his hands and show him what makes you hot! He will catch on, lol.
2006-08-21 17:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always difficult to make a non agressive person more assertive. however in your situation you can do little things to help him out. let him know that whatever he does feels great and he doesnt need to ask. suggest one time that he can do whatever he wants to your body, he doesnt even have to ask. tell him to do what he likes and forget about you. say things like that.
2006-08-21 17:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U need to let him know he doesn't have to ask you, just do it ! & explain to him that, that is important to u 2 be more agressive sexually kissing, holding hands etc,etc
2006-08-21 17:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just fears rejection and wants permission before going physical...in time it could get better. Just tell him that sometimes you want him to be more aggressive. that shouldn't offend him
2006-08-21 17:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Intelligent Donkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that seems like the perfect man and i think u should tell him that u don't care if he kisses you whenever he feels i hope i helped :-p
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2006-08-21 17:31:55 · answer #5 · answered by Reid 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
watch some porn with him and tell him you want to get banged like that.
if that's not an option, if he does something you like, tell him that. let him know it turns you on or makes you feel great.
2006-08-21 17:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Guy w/ Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a bore to me
2006-08-21 21:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a real good BF
itz rare to find one like that
dont doubt him he will proceed gradually
2006-08-21 17:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by might 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that its not a problem he doesnt have to think to do anything to you.
2006-08-21 17:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by santhosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him, but then u will sound slutty, no choice :D
2006-08-21 17:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by daizy_man88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋