How can I be more confident with my life. I mean everything. Life, sports, and dating?
2006-08-21 17:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by ARt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By just doing it. Self confidence is exactly that, Believe in yourself, no one can do that for you.
2006-08-21 17:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by mysticideas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is something that your instilled with by your parents at a young age, and from then on it is a direct result of earning it.
What this means is that in the grand scheme of life, you must encounter obstacles, climb over them, around them, or through them to grow and with each obstacle you gain more confidence. People who sit and watch the world go around, never venturing to experience life, will ultimately grow very little, having little confidence to achieve. An achievement is anything that helps your grow and learn. It can be a simple as tying a shoelace, learning to drive or tackling a major project. You just have to DO IT. There is nothing to it really, as long as you can realize that in life something can go awry, but in the error, or mistake comes something that can help you grow; confidence. Even if it is "I won't do that again" type of situation, thats fine, as long as you see the opportunity to learn, you can't lose.
Humans will always make mistakes, be it judgment, or choice, but it is the true fool who makes the same mistake twice. Learning by doing increases your confidence and if you take the time to see the positive outcome, you will not be the fool.
2006-08-22 17:10:56 · answer #2 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-22 00:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by internetoptimiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean confidence that you will make the right decisions, and carry them out ?
Confidence in your skills at playing sports?
Confidence in your skills at choosing the right person to date?
Practice, observe, evaluate, remove your feelings from any equation, think in a rational manner. Don't get involved with
criminals or law breakers, don't cheat, don't steal, don't take drugs, don't give in to prima donna behaviour, expect the highest standard from yourself and others.
These are just for starters. Nobody said it was easy but the other way is harder.
2006-08-21 17:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the scriptures that help me make in the last 6 years of my life
Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,
saith the LORD,thoughts of peace,and not of evil,to give you an expected end.
also Psalm 90:12 So teach us to number our days that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom
2006-08-21 17:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the Art of Deception or watch Catch Me If You Can.
2006-08-21 17:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to believe in yourself dude. for example, when you apporach a girl you have to ditch the attitude of 'will she like me, what will she think" to "this girl is already mine, she would be lucky to have me in her life" if you keep telling yourslef how great you are, eventually you will start believing it. goodluck!
2006-08-21 17:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Convince yourself to think positive. Think good thoughts about yourself. Hang with people that you like and like you and have good, positive thoughts.
2006-08-21 17:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by jincr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put your confidence in God, because God can do anything!
2006-08-21 17:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read some tips on that on this site
2006-08-21 17:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by cute chick 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋