I have met and dated the guy from internet for a month or so. Every is going great including the sex but he has the past that woman tried to ruin him by lying about pregnancy. So he is really paranoid about the subject which came up too many times after we slept together.I'm on the pills and I don't want any kid. We just agreed that we won't see anyone else. I just found his profile back on the internet dating site that we met. ( we both inactive our profile after we agree). I called and left him short messege ( Hi it's me, can you call me back when you have a chance?).He called and told me that the site is making mistake by activate him again. But he was pissed and yelled at me -messege made him panick . He thought I was pregnant. I shouldh haven't left it since he told me about that woman. He said we'll talk tomorrow after he cool down. Am I inconsiderate? or he is over react? Should we end this relationship?
2006-08-21 16:48:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would normally think he is really a jerk to yell at you like that. However, maybe that is the same message someone left him when they said they were pregnant. He may have had a nasty flash-back when he heard the message.
In this case I would give him the benefit of the doubt and talk to him about it when he cools off. You will have to deal with this issue in the future until he realizes you are different.
2006-08-21 16:55:21 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What relationship?
You are screwing some guy you met off the internet and barely know. He's yelling at you for no good reason and you are spying on him for no good reason. Sounds stupid. There is no trust, no love, no relationship.
2006-08-21 23:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he's serious in this relationship with you. he's just a jerk who wanna have fun. he won't stop seeing other girls. he's the one who activated his own account.
about the pregnancy, it's just some stupid excuses.
perhaps he's just some cyber cheaters. i know it hurts,, but you should leave him now. something fishy about him.
good luck to u
2006-08-22 00:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's playing you for a fool. The "re-activation" story is a lie. Don't be stupid. He's still looking, but keeping you on the hook for sex .
2006-08-21 23:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should let him go slowly but SURELY,because he sounds like a mental person, because he lied to you about his computer. you should start calling him less and avoid seeing him by making up excuses. then hits way you are showing him that you are finished with him
since he is mental letting him go like this is your best option.
2006-08-22 00:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by one c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow he seems really high stung about the whole pregnacy thing. i would takl to him about it and try to clear things up a bit and prove to him that kids arnt in the near future or on mind
2006-08-21 23:54:23 · answer #6 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's over reacting and very paranoid. you might want to get a little distance and see what happens.Good Luck!
2006-08-22 00:00:23 · answer #7 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he needs a therapist. Move on.
2006-08-21 23:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him cool down. Give him space. And ruuuun.
2006-08-21 23:52:24 · answer #9 · answered by Hey You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex, no sex no pregnancy.
2006-08-21 23:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Strike2? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋