Some people say I treat my girlfriend bad. My girlfriend is such a nice person, but I'm a very physical person.
I twist her arm (not to hurt her.. just in a flirty way).. I push her around.. I pull her to come with me somewhere.. I play with her hair.. I play fight with her.. When we play thumb wars I squeeze her hand tight untill she says "ouch ouch stop" then I stop..
Am I being abusive? I heard from her sister that "Yes.. you are very rough.. but my sister likes it I think"
What do you girls think? I am 16 years old.. I am worried I'm being rough, but maybe my girlfriend likes it?
2006-08-21 16:45:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are being ruff. You like it dont you? You have something built up inside of you that likes pain??
I am proud of you for noticing it at such an early age. Do something about it so you wont abuse women. you like that fear in woman or what? Get down to the bottom of it
2006-08-21 16:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad boys are cool, but only when they are bad to other people, not to me. Your girlfriend probably likes that you're a "bad-boy", but she doesnt need that kind of physical teasing/flirting. If she ever says "ouch ouch", you shouldn't do that again, playing with her hair is one thing, but twistin her arm is something else.
Its a thin line between playful fighting and real abuse. Being a bad-boy is showin a woman you can protect her from harm, not showing her how harmful you can be to her.
2006-08-21 17:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by strong_beautifulqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be more gentle. Girl are not as strong or tuff as boys Its ok to play around but not to make her say ouch. No one like to be pushed and pulled. I think you know your being mean. If your in doubt ask her to tell you when enough is enough and then stop.
2006-08-21 16:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop being so rough for example i wouldnt want a guy that is way to rough just be a little more gentle. hope i helped
omg off topic but your pic is so cute you dont look like the kind of guy you described yourself as.
2006-08-21 16:51:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you're being abusive and i don't think she likes it that much. maybe she thinks that there's nothing she can do about it. girls still want to be treated gently. some girls get attracted to bad boys (who look dominant and strong to other people. not the way you treat your gf, that's not what i mean) because they think they can change them, and that makes a big sense for girls.
2006-08-21 16:58:39 · answer #5 · answered by chic_a_cherry_cola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you are being controlling & want it your way, & that you don't care if you hurt her. If I were her, & I told you not to play so rough, and you hurt me again, I would never see you again!
2006-08-21 16:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by KhakiCat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to like bad boys...but that was muscle cars and rebellious attitudes. If one twisted my arm he would've had to pick himself up off the ground.
2006-08-21 16:53:34 · answer #7 · answered by Lonesome Dove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her,
but maybe tone it down a little
2006-08-21 16:53:38 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shuld stop gurlz dont want guyz who play thumb wrestle wit them and twists their arms...its not sweet....but if she likes it then keep on doing it
2006-08-21 16:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by W0Ah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be so rough w/ ur gf and see what happens or just ask her about and see if it annoys her
2006-08-21 16:53:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋