Why do guys in thier 30's think its okay to try to hit on 20 year olds?

Question

It's gross.

okay guys over 30 is what i should have said.
why do they think its okay? cant they get women their own age?

I keep getting hit on my there guys who are old enough to be my dad. I;m sorry but I am not looking for a father figure.
I'm looking for someone to take care of me. I'm ust looking for a young hot guy to go out and have fun with.

Answer 1

You answered your own question! ITS GROSS

Answer 2

when I was 30 - 33, I went out with a bunch of 19 yr. olds but nothing developed. They were too young. It was just sex with some perfect women.

Since I was 35, it seems that the women I have been with are all 26. The age just seems to play out this way.

I have been with one woman for about 2 years. She was 26 when I met her. She is 29 now. I am 41.

I look a lot younger.

I was crushed once because a 21 year old that I went out with when I was 34 told my friend that I was "kinda old". Oh well.

A lot of younger girls prefer an older guy because we have better cars and can take them to better places.

Some just want a guy near their age. It takes all kinds.

I don't really hit on girls. All my dates, just happen. I have not tried hitting on a girl in a long time.

Answer 3

Why do you think it's a problem? Don't you believe in love? Or do you just see a relationship as a convenient arrangement between two people of matching age.
Get a grip. In my experience, people who embark on a relationship with an age gap generally have to work harder to make it work, and have a better relationship to show for it. You can settle for some mediocre **** that happens to be the same age as you,
I'll go for love, if you don't mind (not that I care if you do). If that means an age gap of 2 years, 10 years, or longer, then fine - I look at the person for who they are, not the numbers on their birth certificate. Also, for your info, while I was 17 I was dating a 30 year old woman - so your questions already redundant - it goes both ways.

Answer 4

That has nothing to do with it. You think you're all that? Girls in their 20's hit on us as well, so what's your point? You want us all to hear how older guys hit on you? If you're half-way decent looking, maybe we do, but by the time we reach our 40's we tend to accept less than we normally used to accept. If you're a dog, the older guy is probably a perv anyway. I don't like kids, personally. I like those hard bodies, but the brains haven't matured yet. Don't get me wrong, there are a lot of 20 some year old females who are very mature, and good looking, with great personalities who actually either gone to school or are working for a living. Those aren't going to be writing these shi**y comments about real men, though. Then there are those bit**es who get mad at us, (lose in competition) and tell lies about us to get us busted for perversion which is just a bald faced lie because they are mad at us. Thank God that never happened to me, I'd not take that so nicely.

Answer 5

I'm almost 30... 29 to be exact and I routinely date women who are 21-24 years old. Because women in their 30s have usually been around the block a few times I just don't find them attractive... but younger women have their problems too, even if they've already been married, divorced and have had kids they are usually pretty immature and still into playing games which is a real turn off.

Answer 6

Who said it wasn't okay it hit on somebody younger or older than yourself? AGE is but a number. Like I always say the brain is the largest sexual organ in the human body if you can't stimulate mine for more than 20 minutes you are not worth the f u c k . I don't mean sexually stimulate either. I would rather know a little about a lot than a lot about a little. Some 20 year olds dress like thay are older so maybe the guys think they are older than 20. 20 year old girls hit on older men all the time but thats okay or is it?????

Answer 7

I'm in my 20s and don't my guys in their 30s. A creep, is a creep at any age. Guys will hit on anything, your little sister to your great aunt. Many men look younger then they really are, so you might be surprised one day to be hit on by a "young" looking 30 something. Most 30 year olds aren't leaving at home anymore and have a good job.

Answer 8

To them it makes them feel like they are still young. To some guys that just want to try new things. I have a 27 yr. old friend and she's married to a 41 yr.old guy and they couldn't be happier. I guess some gils like older men and some don't. Some just get a kick out of it, because a younger girl actually gives them the time of day.

Answer 9

Do you look older than you are? Maybe they think you're 21, in which case there isn't really a problem if both people are attracted. If you aren't, that's obviously fine, but my brother married a woman thirteen years younger and they're happy. They have three kids together. Age doesn't matter much.

Answer 10

Speak for yourself sister. I much prefer older guys, I'm in my mid-20's and am not at all attracted to guys under 29-30. I like a guy with enough experience to show my freaky self a thing or two!

Answer 11

If you reach your thirties and you're still unattached, you'll likely be hittin' on twenty year old guys as well as guys your own age and even older. By that time a sense of desperation sets in and you're just glad to have the larger pool to draw from.