we have been going on 2 months
2006-08-21 16:30:07 · 11 answers · asked by cece 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i think it would be fine to write your letter and find out if he feels the same way you do....of find out what he wants to happen in your relationship....you have known him for 2 months and should be able to know some of his likes and dislikes....and i do not see anything wrong with wanting to explain your feelings and where you would like it to lead.....i would not sound pushy or anything..that could run him off...
2006-08-21 16:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be ok. Just let him/her know before hand that you want to write a letter to them, because there is just some things that you can and rather put on paper than just say them. I know that I can better communicate the point better by writing down what I feel or what I think, rather than just coming out and saying it. I have a difficult time saying what I feel about a person, so I write it in a letter. If they dont understand why you need to write a letter instead of saying how you feel, just tell them that you dont want to leave anything out and you can better express yourself and have more time to think about how you feel in a letter. I hope this helps a little and makes sense to you.
2006-08-21 23:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Writing a letter is a great way to figure out what you are really thinking.
I would not give it to him until after 24 hours though. You might change your mind about things once you really start thinking.
2006-08-21 23:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Take it from a girl who has made that mistake before. Guys do not like long letters. It scares them. SCARES THEM.
Just have a casual conversation. After 2 months, he isn't thinking long term future and frankly, neither should you--just get to know each other for now.
2006-08-21 23:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Letters are okay but hearing it straight from you mouth would probably be better. Guys have very short attention spans so you need to keep it by talking about things.
2006-08-21 23:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dana J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem in writing a letter just express yourself well.
2006-08-21 23:38:10 · answer #6 · answered by angel_64 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Letters are fine. I do it sometimes. With letters, you can express yourself better and cover all the details.
2006-08-21 23:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure write the letter, but beware that if they don't think the same way you do they might be weirded out.
2006-08-21 23:36:50 · answer #8 · answered by Julie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are going to ask him,if he read your letter,if he said yes,then ask him where do you to go from there
2006-08-21 23:39:52 · answer #9 · answered by verdance 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, its easier to get the point across, you wont go off topic, you can take your time thinking about it, you wont feel as awkward as you would if you told him face to face, remember to be honest
2006-08-21 23:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋