we didnt break up over anything that was like a big huge deal
2006-08-21 16:16:22 · 24 answers · asked by texas boy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THE BOSS HAVE SPOKEN
Hell no u cant be friends with your EX if u still like. if she get a new BF u will find yourself being a player hater and try to go out the way to get a new GF that u really dont like and so on. the best thing to do is move on pimp
2006-08-21 16:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure... If you want to be a laughing stock or doormat the rest of your life!!! Men that get desirable women are cocky and have much more important things to do than hang around with women who diss them. Being any kind of a sensible, caring person will NEVER get you a woman, even though they claim differently. Learn it while you're young. Their instincts draw them towards strong, powerful men they can't fully understand PERIOD. If she made a mistake in causing the end of or ending the relationship... let her know. Not in a vicious, hurt way... In a strong..."I won't be treated like that" way.
Only women I ever would have had a chance with after a breakup are the ones that really pissed me off and I let 'em have it like a man. They'll call out of the blue and flirt like crazy if we happen to bump into each other... I'm dead serious. They respect me as a strong, attractive man. "Friends" of the opposite sex tend to drift away when they get serious about a guy who is jealous and possesive WHICH TURNS THEM ON, although they will complain about it all the years they are married to the guy!!!.
You hanging on as a friend who still has feelings will piss off some women, like the one honest enough to post it here. It will stroke the ego of some others. They'll keep you around to feel empowered by your desire or submissiveness, or empowered when they put you down behind your back. You will never get another real chance with one of these girls. You may be allowed to "fill in" sometime. She will be gone the first time she's really attracted to someone else. You give up your power. Her friends won't see you as a strong, powerful, almost threatening, attractive man either. She'll take care of that!!!
Be civil and cocky if you have to be around her for some reason. Never lie about your life in an attempt to make her jealous. Being comfortable, confident, and optimistic for no particular reason, except your certain success in every aspect of your life, is even more attractive!!! And you have every reason to be comfortable, confident, and optimistic if you take this stuff to heart.
2006-08-21 16:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man..I feel for you. Me and my bf broke up a little while ago. It was really hard on both of us, but we both just needed space, and we agreed that we would be friends.. The problem was, the whole shibang happened online. So, about two weeks later, I decided it was time, I went over to his house to hang out. I went over there, and not 10 minutes I was there before he had popped in a movie, and we were on the couch. He put his arms around me, and told me he missed me. We talked it out, and we've been goin' back out ever sence.
2006-08-21 16:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jozzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I need more details... WHY did you break up, what was the reason?
Like you said, it's no huge big deal, if it doesn't hurt to see each other and yet can still talk like usual, then it's okay to be frens
But if she starts crying everytime she sees you, it's better to just let her handle the hurt herself.
We need more details really!
2006-08-21 16:24:53 · answer #4 · answered by Miss_Perfect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got been acquaintances w/my ex hubby for quite some time (it took us some yrs after the divorce yet now issues are good). whilst we began being friendly returned he made strikes like he had to attempt relationship returned yet I made it sparkling that deliver had sailed. He even helped mecontinual 1200 miles when I relocated and spent 2 nights in motel rooms with me. no longer something occurred between us - even although i think of he could have been involved. you may have confidence your gf - if she says they're in basic terms acquaintances it is strictly what they're.
2016-10-02 09:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep.
When I was in HS I dated my best friend. When we broke up we decided our friendship was much more important than our dating relationship, so we stayed friends. It was a little hard at first, but quickly became easier. If it wasnt a hostile break up there is no reason you can't learn to be friends.
Good Luck.
2006-08-21 16:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by monkeedee2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't it be? I used to date one of my best friends, and we broke up, deciding on friendship over relationship.. That was ten years ago, and we still get along really well (I attended her wedding a few months back). Don't ask if you can still be friends - just ask if there's any reason NOT to be. You obviously got on well enough to date - if you didn't break up badly, then you shouldn't really need to ask!
2006-08-21 16:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why u want here back if theres a chance? Well if thats the case then why not. But if you dont want to expect anything from her better stay away .
2006-08-21 16:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! Ex's really should not try to be friends if you still care about one another. Try taking some time apart and if you still find yourself trying to be with her then you two need to talk things out.
2006-08-21 16:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really depends on you...but if you still really like her, then i would try not hangning around her for a while...see what its like without her...
most of the time, its hard not letting your feelings get in the way of your friendship, but if you really think you can be her friend, then go for it...
im friends with ex's who ive still had feelings for, the feelings will pass
2006-08-21 16:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by carrie g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋