I'm planning on getting married next June and I want to start a new life with my guy but I have some unresolved issues with my ex. Should I talk to my ex about whats going on or just live with the the guilt of what happened between us.
2006-08-21 16:16:02 · 13 answers · asked by Dana J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'd resolve whatever issues you have before the wedding. That way you will feel better about yourself and be able to devote yourself to your new husband. An old friend of mine recently called me up to resolve some issues from 6 years ago- i hadnt even noticed the stress and guilt i was feeling until we sorted it out. I think it will be better for your marriage and wellbeing in the long run. Good Luck
2006-08-21 16:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say without knowing the extent of the unresolved issues with your ex, this is a hard question to answer. Sometimes it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, ya know? If I were engaged, I would be very uncomfortable having anything to do with an ex boyfriend, but that's me. But if you feel you need to resolve these issues before you can commit yourself 100% to your husband, then you should probably resolve them, if you can. Maybe your ex boyfriend doesn't have the issues, it's all you. If you treated him badly, apologize and that's it. Hope this helps you out some. Good luck!
2006-08-21 16:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically speaking, if you are getting married next year, you shouldn't be worrying about an ex. However, if the unresolved issues are detrimental to the success of your future marriage, then maybe you should have that talk.
2006-08-21 16:33:04 · answer #3 · answered by NGE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
- U need 2 talk it over then put it to rest. Close one chapter before u open another, if u dont u will be entering the marriage with unresolved baggage, why would u want to tarnish something so beautiful? Talk it over ASAP, then Enjoy, Good Luck!!!
2006-08-21 17:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Celery Sage green & champagne. Our buddy had those 2 colorations at her wedding ceremony and that they have been very stylish and state-of-the-paintings. The flora have been creams and celery vegetables and the bride wore a chamgpagne colored sash with a broach on her dress. "dazzling" of direction yet another decision is the nicely-time-commemorated "tiffany" teal blue and white. all your occasion favors must be white jordan almonds wrapped up tied with a white ribbon. Or teal colored votives everywhere. look at Martha Stewart website for great colour alternatives. much less is often greater!
2016-10-02 09:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your ex and resolve whatever things to be resolved. Tell him you are moving on and he will be part of a closed book in your life. now, do move on and start you married life right.
2006-08-21 16:27:18 · answer #6 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the saying "the more you stir it the more it stinks" - I think it applies here. Good luck with your new life - the past sometimes is better left in the past.
2006-08-21 17:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, God! Who would it help...him or you? If it doesn't help him then just leave the poor bast@rd alone! Women are the most guilt ridden creatures in the universe.
2006-08-21 16:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what it is. maybe you should discuss it with your current mate and see what they have to say. but things should be resolved beforehand so you dont have to live with guilt.
2006-08-21 20:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by thedreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never tell you about anything happened between you and your current one. My advise
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2006-08-21 17:17:59 · answer #10 · answered by Lean S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋