I currently have a friend that has sex with me. He is actually the brother of my ex boyfriend =P
We have great times together and great sex. Lately I am kind of bored because he seems so damn moody :-P
Maybe he is bi-polar, he tends to be pretty moody.
My question is.........how come we are bothe attracted to one another (so it seems) yet I feel kind of weird making any type of advances towards him, like I used to. One night there is just the most awesome kissing and foreplay and yes of course sex. The next night nothing.
I do have a very high sex drive, it pretty much is way beyond average. Could it be I am wanting too much sex? Or he is worn out or wtf. I am kind of confused about his feelings and his attraction to me. Am I just a tool to be used or is he feeling that way? ** note: although he is my ex's brother, our relationship (sexual) started after the break up of my ex (his brother).
2006-08-21 16:01:15 · 12 answers · asked by sw33t_l34f_2004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're wanting sex everyday, thats too much imo. Gotta give the guy time to recharge. We actually have to be able to have an erection to have sex. All girls have to do is be able to spread their legs. They could physically have sex 30 times a day 7 days a week. a guy can't do that. I could probably go night after night for 3 maybe 4 nights, but after that I'd need a day or 2 off or I wouldn't be worth a fcuk.
2006-08-21 16:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im sorry to say gurl !?!?!? friends with benefits can be very hard to understand because it is just sex. If you tie to much emotions into it you would either end up heart broken or just stomped on. It can leave you feeling really bad. If you just treat him as a mate with benefits, he will treat you the same. By the sounds of it, he is starting to treat you like that at the moment. If you do feel anything for your ex brother, well tell him and see if he feels the same. You wont know until you try it but it might make you sound like a slut because with you going throught the family (brothers)
2006-08-21 23:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kiwi GurL3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had that same experience, but I was still with my ex. I was doing it so much that I started to have real feelings for him and he with I. I finally had to cut it off, because of the family. I didn't want them talking and anyone getting hurt. He sometimes would get mad because I wanted to be with him one night and not the next. I guess I just had a guilty concious that what we were doing was wrong. So I called it off so that neither one of us would get hurt no matter how much we wanted it. maybe thats what's going on, he's starting to feel something more than just a friend with benefits. It's up to both of you on where you want the relationship to go. I suggest you both sit down and talk. That will be the only way you will know what's going on.
2006-08-21 23:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by littlecloieinttown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits never works! Someone always ends up hurt! Plus you friendship will never be the same.
2006-08-21 23:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have come to understand what kind of relationship it is and you want more than that and you feel funny because you know you can't get more than that. so you feel distant and things seem different
2006-08-21 23:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you know that it's wrong. Do whatever you want to do though. Whatever makes you happy because no matter what anyone on this website says, thats what youre going to do anyways.
2006-08-21 23:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants more from you then just to be a sex toy....hes trying to send you little signs to show that by not always having sex with you
2006-08-21 23:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Voncriss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its not love its just fooling around and your bored with it,you will move on with someone else,when you meet the right guy you will find that it wont get boring and you wont feel that way
2006-08-21 23:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man maybe you need to sit down and have a talk to him about it maybe he doesnt want to get to close to you maybe he thinks its just a booty call
2006-08-21 23:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you go around like a old record.
2006-08-21 23:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by bullfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋