I got in an arguement with my boyfriend about where he was last week and he gave my this story, but somehow I knew someting wasnt right.....
2006-08-21 15:47:54 · 19 answers · asked by Thinking About Her. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes i have, we women are good at that sort of thing
2006-08-21 15:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, or maybe if people will stop painting the only reason a guy would lie as cheating, they might start to contemplate any number of other explanations?
"I got in an arguement with my boyfriend about where he was last week"
Arguments take two people to happen. Of course it won't have been your fault, will it?
You obviously don't trust him, and to be honest, if he doesn't want to account for his whereabouts to you, then he shouldn't have to. Trust. It's kinda important.
If you're that convinced he's cheating, then just leave, because if you pick at him and argue with him about where he's been, and openly accuse him of lying and cheating, it won't be long before you'll drive him to do just that - or he'll just leave himself.
If you think that he's actually capable of cheating on you and you believe that it's a possibility, then you're with the wrong guy anyway, regardless of if he's cheated or not. Move on.
2006-08-21 23:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming will only get you in to trouble. Find out for sure before you start pointing fingers. If you don't trust him, then you will never trust him. Get out and find someone you can trust. I know that sounds harsh, but trust is a big thing in a relationship. I know this because I was always the type to never believe the stories I was told by my boyfriends.
2006-08-21 22:56:41 · answer #3 · answered by Dr.Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately yes... 3 years ago I told my boyfriend I was pregnant and he disappeared for 4 days and when He finally came back he gave me a lame excuse about staying at a friends house. I knew it wasn't true but I let it go. Needless to say we broke up and stayed broke up my entire pregnancy. When I gave birth to our son it was like he started a new life. We got back together and he eventually admitted to me that where he was. And he was with another girl! I was very angry but deep down I always knew he was with another girl that week.
I hope you can work things out!
2006-08-21 22:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, I was more surprised when I caught him telling the truth! Had to let him go as a boyfriend... can't take the risk with a man who cheats. Too much out there... HIV, Hep C, HPV, and all the usual STD's. I love life and myself too much to risk either for a cheating man. Hope you do too!
2006-08-21 23:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend in highschool cheated. I found out cause some of my friends actually saw him pick this girl up and drive out of town with her, then come back 2 hours later, with that "fresh ****** look". I asked him if he had cheated on me and he tried to lie his way out of it. But I told him that my friends had seen him and he knew he was caught, so he just confessed.
2006-08-21 22:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by LittleMermaid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are ways to tell if he is lying to you..one he won't make eye contact with you, two he'll figit, three he'll try and change the subject fast, and four, he might hold his breath ,just pay close attention when he tells the truth on something normal..watch how he talks or stands ..try not to charge at him when you know he's been lying..lay low,, and play him at his own game.
2006-08-21 22:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by shedogg30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i asked my x boyfriend bwt that 7 months ago i asked him about it and he denied it then 2 weeks after i told him i couldnt make it to his birthday party then i asked my mother she said i could for a couple of hours and caught him in bed with my best mate
2006-08-21 22:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by cheeky_monkey_channel26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My kid's father loved to cheat on me. I knew he was lieing eveytime. It was like there was some kind of feeling.You just know.
2006-08-21 22:52:57 · answer #9 · answered by Mary M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your gut, we have this intuition and it usually proves to be right. As long as you are not over reacting. The truth always prevails.
2006-08-21 22:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Carey L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men will lie defensively just because they don't like being grilled about where they were and what they did and who they did it with.
2006-08-21 22:52:30 · answer #11 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋