Ok.. here's the story. About a week ago a bunch of my friends and I were out celebrating my recent engagement. I got a little drunk and came home early. (No I didn't drive myself. A friend brought me home.) When I got home I pee'd in the shower. Now my fiance' is upset with me. She says I ruined the whole shower. I think it's just because she's nervous about getting married, but all her friends that were in the shower won't talk to me either. What gives? Do you think she's overreacting? I cleaned it up.
2006-08-21 15:20:13 · 21 answers · asked by smutulator 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Cowboy_Bill: THANK YOU.
I was beginning to lose faith in my subtle humor skills.
2006-08-22 00:47:01 · update #1
Ha, ha ha!
You sure have a lot of dumb people answering your question!
(now that's what I call a wedding SHOWER!)
2006-08-21 16:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand, if it's in the shower, there is a drain, what's the big deal? It's better than the bed or carpet or something, and if you cleaned it up, I'd think you were fine. However weddings do cause a lot of stress, so maybe she's just a little tense. Talk about it with her. If it helps, my husband prefers peeing in the shower, then being in the shower, having to go and get out to pee in the toilet, so he goes in the shower. Kinda gross but whatever, as long as it's cleaned up.
2006-08-21 22:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Gone2PickApples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, all her friends that were in the shower? How many people use your shower, the whole neighborhood? And really, unless you told your fiance how would she have known? You could have easily rinsed it down the drain which apparently you did. Why did you need to blab? I would say she is overreacting and also, you should lay off drinking if you can't tell the toilet from the shower.
2006-08-21 22:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: How do all her friends know about this?
2: Does she really think this is the first time you have pee'd in the shower?
All kidding aside, if she's looking this hard for a reason to get mad and not marry you, maybe you had best think about calling it off.
2006-08-22 00:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Least you dont do what my husbands cusin does. Him and his Ex was at her house one night. He got drunk and they went to bed, in the middle of the night he got up, and walked over to her hamper, and pee'd in, because he thought it was the toliet. He has done that many times, like when my husband and all the guys go hunting. They have a giant army tent they use, well he got up and pee'd on a friend in his cot, sleeping, lmfaooo It is very digusting. At least you did it where it is easily cleanable. And what re you doing in the shower, with her friends?? thats not good.
2006-08-21 23:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pee'd while her friends were in the shower? Im confused. If you just pee'd in the shower and you wrote this wrong it's not a big deal.
2006-08-21 22:26:24 · answer #6 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this: " You know what? You're right and I think we should call the whole thing off. I'm sure I've ruined your life by this and I don't want to ruin it any further. I think you should go now.....go to your girlfriends, in whom you immaturely confided this. I would have expected my fiance' to have kept such a thing a confidence but it's clear to me that you lack the maturity to have done so.....so please, go."
Fella......is she overreacting or is she that much of a priss? Cuz I'm here to tell ya that in a marriage, she can expect to see worse of you and whether she knows it or not she's going to reveal some aspects of herself that are totally uncool too......and, boy, she better hope you don't go whining about it to all of YOUR friends. What snotnosed behavior.
I don't know a single guy who hasn't peed in the shower. Furthermore, I don't know a single woman who hasn't either.
2006-08-21 22:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by badasslilnici 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For goodness sake she is raving mad, what harm did you do, I often have a pee in the shower ( my husband isn't bothered ). My real advice to you is not to marry someone so petty over such a triviality, goodness only knows how she would react to real important, bigger issues. Her attitude will only get worse not better. She obviously wouldn't enjoy a golden shower - sad c*w ! Run for your life and be happy.
2006-08-22 02:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is completely over reacting! I hate when my bf pee's in the shower but thats what they make disinfecting for! Spray a little Clorox cleaner in there and call it a day!
2006-08-21 23:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off the engagement. If you can't pee in the shower, she is going to divorce you when you pee in the sink when she is sitting on the throne, like mixer said..
2006-08-21 22:31:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋