She is everything. I mean you have no idea how much i love her. And I am not too young, love happens any age?

Question

This girl means the world to me, it's so hard to let her go. Please give me and honest answer, thanks.?
She's 13, im 15. She used to be all over me, well people started talkin about it, I kinda rushed her, and just different things happend, and now she seems she dont like me at all. She told her friends she has no feelings for me at all. But she told her mom that she is just scared, and I know her mom wouldnt lie to me. Her mom also said that if I really really like somone else, then i should go for it. But if I really really like her daughter, than i should be patient. I mean we barely barely even talk anymore, whats the deal?


I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??

But she seems to like me sometimes, like the way she looks at me, or she seems nervous, but other times, it seems like she dont care

Answer 1

Send her back the same song she sent you.

Answer 2

It depends on what those "different things" are (other people talking about you, sex, arguments, etc.). As several people said, she's only 13. I'm guessing she's not even in high school yet. She may feel nervous about being in a committed relationship. She may be worried about getting sexually involved. She may be afraid of heartbreak. None of those issues are necessarily about you as an individual, they're about her readiness for the relationship that you want.

Here's a hint that will carry you throughout the rest of your life if you learn it properly now. COMMUNICATE. You know, like in the movies where two people who are interested in each other sit down in a fairly private place and talk about what they're feeling? You need to do that. It requires a bit of vulnerability most teenagers aren't comfortable with BUT if you have the conversation and get some answers, at least you'll know what's going on. If she clams up, maybe she can write her feelings down better than speak them. Give her the option.

As for love, it could be love, even at 15. Now, you just have to schedule the talk...

Answer 3

Both of you are young enough that you will get over it. Most 13 year old girls don't know what they want or why. If she really does like you........she will figure it out and want you back. If you really do care for her......and believe this is the girl for you.....then you should wait and see what happens. If you really care for her as you say.........you should be able to give her some time. It all depends on how much you want to make things work out for the two of you. You can't force someone to feel for you the way you feel for them........they either do.....or they don't! If it was me....i would step back.....give her some room.........keep an eye on the situation and see what developes. If she starts seein other guys or playin the field ...so to say......it might just be time to move on with your life. If you want her bad enough.........keep tryin......and see what happens.

Answer 4

Give her some time. She is probably scared and confused. Keep talking with her mom, because her mom could very possibly be your best friend in winning this girl's heart. I don't think you are crazy to be having these feelings at 15, you are probably just more mature than most of the boys your age. I am the mother of 3 sons, my oldest son fell in love at a young age also. His wife is 2 years younger than he is. He is now 20 and they are expecting their second child. So, I believe that some people do fall in love early. If this relationship is meant to be, it will work out if you give it some time and give her some space. If it doesn't work out, don't despair because maybe it wasn't meant to be at this particular time.

Answer 5

Try being a friend first. Take things slow. U r only 15. If she really doesnt like u anymore find someone else. She ay or may not like u again. Different ppl have diferent rules on what they do when they date a person. At the very least, talk to her about it. Ask her what happened. Good luck.

Answer 6

yea well this is a really tough situation to be in. it seems to me that she is scared like her mom told you. you need to be the one to take the risk and tell her face to face how you feel and how much you love her. tell her you want to be with her and all of that stuff....and like how you have missed her. talking is the best thing you can do right now and trust me it will help a lot. don't push her into doing anything or being with you again. let her take her time until she is ready....this may mean that you will have to wait around but if you do love her then it is definitely worth it. you're still so young so take your time, be patient.

Answer 7

Dont rush her! Dont make her do anything she doesn't want to do... She is only 13 ....

Do simple things for her .... You sound like you have REALLY strong feelings for her, so maybe give her a whole CD of songs the kinda express the way you feel about her

Also leave flowers

A box of chocolate

Tell her she is beautiful!

Anything, but mostly tell her what you just "asked" about how you would do anything for her .... She will appreciate it...

Good Luck

Answer 8

Hmm first off, in my opinion, this is a simple case of puppy love. Seeing how kids these days absorb some adult attributes, most not in the good sort, they have a tendency to do some stupid stuff. No offense man, but she may have seen you as a "fling", or maybe she was a little freaked out by the age difference. And the fact is, teenagers desperately believe that they have "fallen in love" with someone at their age, but no teenager truly knows what love is. You should get over her, life goes on.

Answer 9

Trust me, this is teenage stuff......and it too shall pass. You are not "in love" with her becasue you have no idea what the depth of true human love is. Besides, she is much too young for you and you could get into very big trouble!!! Leave her alone. Teenage girls are freaky and are all over the place in the relationship department. Stop wasting your time. When you become an adult.....you will not even remember her name! Mom is ont he case, too.....so take the hint!!! Now, again, Leave Her Alone.....and go play basketball!

Answer 10

Boy do you sound like 15. If your mature and all that then my suggestion to you is, man up and move on. Chicks get turned off by Love Sick whipped guys. Just ignore her and move dude. Once she see's that, maybe she'll come back. And in the meantime, as much as a stretch as it may sound, you just might find someone else. It happens everyday homey.

Answer 11

Don't put pressure on her, that will drive her away.

Haven't you ever heard this poem?:

"If you love something, set it free,
if it comes back to you, it's yours,
if not let it go."

(or something like that, I think I screwed up the last line)

Honestly she's really too young to be trying exclusive relationships, she ought to be focusing more in what she wants to become in life. The best thing you could do for her is let her figure herself out. If the two of you were meant to be together, it'll happen.