2006-08-21 15:07:44 · 37 answers · asked by nelly78 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was seeing hookers and strippers
2006-08-21 15:15:13 · update #1
When you try to get even, you are telling him that he has succeeded in hurting you. Forget him and let it go. Take no baggage with you Try to heal yourself from a bad past and move on with your life. When he sees how happy you are in the future with a new mate, that will be revenge enough . Trust me he will not be happy for you.
2006-08-21 15:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Coleen W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sometimes takes some effort to be the bigger person but if you do you'll feel a lot better about yourself in the long run. You don't want to meet the love of your life in the future and have him not interested in you because he finds out you stooped that low do you? Just think of things you like to do, join a class, meet new people, spend time nurturing YOU. Get a new hair do or a manicure or a new outfit/bike/cd, do whatever it takes to make yourself feel a little pampered. The best revenge is put some money in a savings account and invest in yourself, once you are on your way to being financialy independent and self sufficent the men won't leave you alone and you'll have your pick and you'll be left thinking hmmmm I wonder whatever happened to....what was his name again....? feels good doesn't it?
2006-08-21 15:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the high road and be a bigger person. Just remember that you cannot ever take anything back that you do or say.
How you feel about getting revenge now may not be how you would feel once time passes.
Let this part of your life go behind you and concentrate on moving yourself forward and making a better life for yourself. In the end you will be glad you did.
2006-08-21 15:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by love_my_4x4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date His Best Friend Make Him Jealous Go To His housecAnd Have Sex In His Bed With His Best Friend.Good Luck=)
2006-08-21 15:14:00 · answer #4 · answered by decoyaryan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and make the most out of your life. That would be the best revenge - show them that you don't need them, and that you are past letting them be the center of your actions and thoughts by leaving them alone. Revenge is counterproductive anyway, and the best revenge is gained by not wasting your time seeking it at all!
2006-08-21 15:13:52 · answer #5 · answered by Purecheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ex b/f are meant to be that an ex why bother getting even and keeping him in your life. move on and succeed that is the best revenge you can give them
2006-08-21 15:15:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all get your own life on track and realize you can do better with out your ex. show the world you are your own person first and that love shared is love earned. the ex obviously never learned that.
2006-08-21 15:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by ehatis98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that getting even will not do you any good. It seems as though you were hurt and want to hurt that person back.
Even if you do hurt them back you will still grieve the relationship and have to deal with a breakup.
I don't think its worth it, not worth your time and energy.
2006-08-21 15:12:37 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Success is the best revenge. Get on with your life, be happy. Take care of yourself and don't look back.
2006-08-21 15:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by Willow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, I got revenge on my ex in two ways, I did not fight the fact that he ended up with a trashy sleazy whoring slutty home-wrecker, and then I found a good man and had kids by him
2006-08-21 15:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋