Why is love so hard to find when your young or old??

Question

I know this a question that has been asked a lot,but still i need a answer that fits me.............

Answer 1

Well my grandfather once said to me....
"life is like a roll of toilet paper... The closer you get to the end the quicker it gets."
Now I know this doesn't make much sense to you for your question but it actually does pertain.

See the thing is when we are young it is hard to find cause we, and this means your partner also, are thinking in the back of our heads that we have a lot of life left to live and there just might be someone better out there. So we hold back and keep our options open....

Now when we get old it makes it hard cause we are seeing life like it is coming to an end... And desperation is never attractive. Plus we are, by that time rather jaded do to past relationships. And not able to "let someone in" so to speak...
Simply speaking we are our worst enemies.

My grandfather also told me that no matter who you are there is at least one person out there that truly loves you. The trick is finding someone that you also love. I suspect this is true. We all have someone out there that is IN LOVE with us. But the problem comes in when we don't find them as desirable as they find us. Which is usually the case.

Answer 2

i know love sucks cause when ur alone nobody really asks you out or wants u n as soon as you have someone the whole world wants you to, i think that's just the way things are but don't give up some day someone will come along that's right for you. The bad thing is there is no time frame so u just have to hope it's soon. Good Luck!

Answer 3

I think because most people are either too selfish or too emotionally damaged to give as much as love requires. True love means giving without expecting to get anything in return. Giving simply because you want to without being manipulative. Only healthy people can do that without completely burning out so it's pretty rare.

And, as you already know, that's not a skill that's limited to age or income, it's simply a matter of the heart.

Answer 4

With youthful love, we've self assurance the doors are nonetheless open, there remains of challenge new love can flow by way of those doors and convey us much greater vivid hues and a greater alluring consequence. by the time you're previous, the doors are final, and you're making the superb of what you have have been given. yet surely, that's as alluring as we make it out to be. that's the superb ingredient on earth, or we are able to make it the "2d superb ingredient" by stressful and thinking that it is the "2d superb ingredient", and make ourselves seek for the "superb ingredient" without understanding (or desirous to admit) there is no such ingredient as perfection till we settle for some flaws as area of the perfection. human beings make youthful love greater sturdy than previous love, while the two are (because of the fact the poster above me pronounced) merely the comparable. of course there are glaring circumstances the place you have have been given to seek for love returned: Abuse, cheating, dying, etc. If i develop into writing an essay, i could touch on those too. :] solid success on the essay!

Answer 5

Love is hard to find regardless of age. Otherwise there wouldn't be so many single people in all age groups.
Just know that it'll be worth it when it finds you, and that it can happen at any time....

Answer 6

Because, frankly friend, people act a lot on pretenses. They pretend to be someone they're not, or someone else to please others, and they become less lovable because they refuse to tell the truth.

Answer 7

don't look for it, let it look for you. when you are looking for love you are usually looking in the wrong places. go out have fun enjoy life and when you least expect it, it will happen!!!