i am straight, love women and their bodies, and love sex with them as well...
i have also been addicted to porn since i was young (now 23). when i see men randomly who look like male porn stars. like the ones i see in the movies...(muscular, sleazy...especially the ones who look like they have a lot of sex) i get aroused, but then want to go home and screw by girlfriend. i have never wanted to jump on them and "do" them...
can anyone relate or give an explanation?
doews anyone think its becuase i watched porn at a young age and related to the men somehow, and it has affected me today?
also...when i see a hot woman i dont get instantly aroused...when i think about having sesx with her or even toucing her, then i get very aroused and get an erection...
also...i get anxietly around other men...maybe this anxiety can cause me to get aroused?
2006-08-21 14:40:44 · 13 answers · asked by musicman 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
no l can't relate l think you are gay. Go ahead and become a pole dancer.
2006-08-21 14:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by meanblacktiger 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a normal, healthy sex life I wouldn't worry about the fact that you get aroused by guys who look like porn stars. It's most likely just an association you have, kinda like you said. However, this is how fetishes get started, so you might want to lay off the porn for awhile. Otherwise, it may become a requirement for you to even be able to function sexually.
2006-08-21 21:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
perfectly normal, don't blame it on the porn; you haven't gone and killed someone because you saw it on a movie have you?
Maybe you recognize the beauty a body can have reguardless of sex. Real beauty can have that effect of arousal whether you want to sleep with it or not. that and you could just be curious deep down and that's ok too, just don't do anything that hurts you or make you upset about and I see no problem. Also could just be that seeing these guys that you see as symbols of sex could just make you horny cause you realte them to sex and gratification. As long as it's not hurting anything you should be fine.
2006-08-21 21:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Strikernow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, there are lots of things going on here. you may well be bisexual, and there is nothing wrong with that. the latest research shows that you are born with certain preferences (there is even some current research showing that if you have an older brother you are more likely to be gay, amazing as that may sound).
there could be envy, curiosity, lack of self esteem, and on and on, going on.
btw, the guys in the porn probably don't have a lot of sex, with either sex - they are too much in love with themselves.
and re porn, remember, we men are visually stimulated, so that is why you are turned on by the pics. best suggestion, just go with the flow. there is nothing wrong with you.
2006-08-21 21:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dude, perhaps you're becoming aroused not at the men, themselves, but what they may represent to you. Perhaps you yearn to have the life of a porn star...a guy who gets a lot of 'tang.
And getting anxious around other men? Perhaps you have some inferiority issues...like you may not stack up against them very well. Relax and accept yourself, and celebrate your positive strengths.
2006-08-21 21:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like Porn star men are a trigger for you. Of course it is from watching so much porn, to you sexy looking men make you think of sex.. which makes you want to have sex.. etc etc
2006-08-21 21:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by kimberly b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These men are supposed to make you think about sex...that is why they are used in advertising. It is the aura of sex...not the man that you are attracted to. Plus the fact that you have watched so much porn...your brain sees these men and thinks sex is somewhere in the big picture. You have programed your brain for sex, by watching countless hours of porn. It is the skin, hair, muscle tone..and essentially anything that can move that makes you think of sex ....
that is why I don't watch porn so that I can get on with my life and not have excessive sex thoughts interfere with my goals.
2006-08-21 21:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bisexuality is the human sexual orientation which refers to the aesthetic, romantic, or sexual desire for people of either gender or of either sex. For some writers, the term is parallel to homosexuality and heterosexuality, while for others the term expresses a blend of the two.
2006-08-21 21:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You project yourself onto the man, wishing you were him: muscular, good-looking, well-hung.
You ARE him as you completely satisfy this woman. You make up a fantasy in your mind and it takes over.
Remember, instead of going into a bathroom and jerking off to mental images of him, you take it out on your girl.
2006-08-21 21:46:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perfectly normal, in every way. This could stem from when you were very young and something happened that you have long forgotton or was pushed to your subconscious. It matters not what turns you on, you are not a harm to yourself or others are you?
2006-08-21 21:48:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah.. porn is not good.. see what happen to you, dear.
and you're not gay.. i believe this is kind of normal to most men.
and i agree with toe poe & dukalink... the aura really reached you.
stay straight and love yourself!
2006-08-21 21:56:32 · answer #11 · answered by POCOYO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋