Where can a beautiful girl get a date with a guy who's got something going for him?

Question

I'm 20 years old, I live In Snohomish WA and im absolutely gorgeous, adorable, and sexy all in one. im a really good girl and i like to have fun but I keep getting stuck with these gyus that really dont know how to treat a girl. I want to see what other people have to say cause since im 20 and i moved here recently I know few people and dont know where I can meet anyone, date anyone . 30 date in 30 days? can I meet a guy who will take me to italy. My dad is wealthy im georgous and he said i deserve the best being as pretty and smart as i am. All guy tell there daughters that, ALL men tell me that, But I date BOYS who dont know what im worth, Im mangled as they handle me as delicate as I am.

Answer 1

I agree with SmartySlacks. Try speed dating. I like 8minuteDating.com. You get 8 eight minute dates with real people in person. If you don't put them down on your match card, then you will never see them again. It's great!

Answer 2

It seems as if your downfall is your brain or lack of it. Absolutely georgeous, smart girls dont keep picking up trash. Maybe its because you are desperate why you end up with the wrong guys. Dont hold yourself in such high esteem. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and if your beauty is only on the outside then you are going to be dumped over and over again. Guys will use you as there climax bag. By the way! If you dad is so rich, why do you want a guy to take you to Italy? You claim that he says you deserve the very best. He is YOUR dad so he should give you the very best and not have you basically prostituting yourself for an Itally flight. Go get an education and make your own money because as it is you seem like a gold digger.

Answer 3

The proverbial woman's question. Where's that ideal man? That guy doesn't hang out where you have been looking. Stop going there. Why aren't you attending a University? You are young, intelligent and off track waiting to be rescued from Dad's shelter. If you were my daughter I'd send you off to study and encourage you to focus on a career. You don't need a man to be dependent upon. It's the wrong situation for your future. A good man will be interested in a woman who has something going on besides man shopping.
PS I have a 19 year old daughter, a sophmore at a good University. A son too 21. My son hangs with some very fine young men. The good guys are in school.
If you want to know how to get started then write me. It's easy for an intelligent woman such as yourself. From a sincere Dad.

Answer 4

This is just a guess, but I imagine that you're letting the guys pick you, and not the other way around. There are a hundred-million fish in the sea, so be picky -- it's your life. The first sign that a guys is a prick, bail on him and move on. Oh, and a trick I've learned (as a guy) -- don't sleep with people for at least a couple weeks once you're exclusive. That really weeds out the ones that don't care about anything other than getting laid. If their frustration turns to anger -- not a good person. Good luck!!

Answer 5

Well, first move to Wichita, Kansas.
Then date me!! =]
I'm exactly what you said about yourself....except masculine and handsome instead of gorgeous and adorable!! =]
But really, you just need to not settle for some schmuck. Way I see it, is you're fishing, right? And you're looking for a glow fish (the ones deep down in the ocean that can produce their own light - - the really beautiful ones). But they are real deep down; and you need to sift through a lot of sea weed and gross fish (sometimes sharks too) to get down there. But then when you find that glow fish - - keep it! Just don't settle for a cat fish or a bass.
So, all in all...there is no "easy" or "sure" way. No mathematical equations. Just keep your eyes out and know what you want.

But I could be totally wrong...I'm a guy, and we're pretty dumb...

Answer 6

try not to focous on wat the guy will give u. its more important to find a guy who is caring and loving than will give u wateva u want. maybe try joining a church or going to a bar or getting into a university or colleage (if ur not already in 1) and taking classes that caring guys are likely to take. join a sports club, a gym, a craft class, a swimming club or something like that so u can meet a guy with the same hobbies as u or u wont hav anything at all to talk abt. hope this helps.

Answer 7

Good Luck, there are not many of us "real" men out there. On top of that, I happen to be a little old fashion'd for my age. I'm 21, & was taught how to be a gentleman by my dad who was very strict. I always pay when I take a girl out & now that I'm even with someone & money is kinda both of ours I still insist on paying, opening doors & so forth Did you know that I won't even let my girl walk on the "outside" of the sidewalk. that is the man's place. But It takes alot more for a Man to be successful & have a good future in front of him. Most Boys do not mature that fast, & untill they do, they will stay a boy. Good luck with your search! :) its a long & hard one.

Answer 8

The way that you describe yourself is the answer to your own question. No normal guy would like to go out with a nutcase like you. You are too pretty, too smart, too rich and too delicate. Make sure you keep that for yourself, others may think that you are missing something upstairs.

Answer 9

You wrote you are everything any girl would die for, yet you sounded so desperado!

Why you need a guy to take you to Italy? You can't afford it?
Your dad is rich. He can take you there.

I think your ego is bigger than your real self. No apologies. I don't find what you wrote about yourself and the situation logic and sincere.

Maybe wait another few years to grow up.

Answer 10

You are obviously too good for any of us lowly males. Why don't you ask your dad to buy you a ticket to Italy and stay there? I hear that the Italians know how to treat a woman. I also suggest that you move to Iraq. You'll get the treatment that you deserve there.