My girlfriend and I have been together for over 1 1/2 years, i love her more then anything and she loves me more then anything, i'm going to college in less then a month and she wants to break up cause she thinks it would be to hard to make this work without one of us hurting the other, she says one day she wants us to get married, i can tell she cares about me! so i ask her why end us before there is even a reason? and she just says that she thinks we should! I need help with my situation, i want to keep her, so what should i do or say to make her believe that we can get through college together?!?!
2006-08-21 14:33:14 · 5 answers · asked by Matthew M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that happen to me and I didn't find anything that would keep us together...
... and ya know what 20 years later we met again, from half way across the US, got back together after our divorces.
She Broke up with me again...
...and I didn't go to college again this time...
...but I learned somin'
don't be with this person!!!
2006-08-21 14:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by DM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you more than anything, why does she want to break up with you. I know from experience that long-distance relationships can be extremely tough. It might be a good thing for you 2 to not "break up", but take a break from each other and then after the first semester is over see if you still are connected to each other. While you're at college, call her or write her, etc.. That will test your relationship and you will know afterward how true your love is for her and vice versa.
2006-08-21 21:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon Boy Toy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tuff one Matt, I know from exp long distance relationships are extremely hard to maintain, u'l meet loadsa chicks at college anyway - and although u don't think it now- A few months after u've been there you could be seeing someone different
2006-08-21 22:05:57 · answer #3 · answered by stuckatthedisco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldnt have lost her trust by cheating on her...more than once!!...think about it matt!...its not all the easy....i dont trust you...and you no that...it would bever work!!...i do love you but i CANT be hurt again!....im sorry....i love you but...we need to be done...at least for college
2006-08-21 21:56:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wish her the best of luck and move on.
2006-08-21 22:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by bjo53w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋