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Being a military wife of 12 years I've learned that TRUE LOVE will last no matter what distance is between you two. If you can afford to it's better to hear your girlfriends voice everyday, even for 1 minute to hear her say I LOVE YOU and that YOU LOVE HER, rather than 30 minutes once a week talking about nothing. If you truly love your girlfriend and vise versa, TRUST one another (that's key)NEVER use the phrase BREAK UP (Divorce if you're married) and always think about the other person missing you 50% more than you miss them and let your feelings flow based off that. NEVER hang up the phone or end a conversation mad at eachother, never goto sleep mad (even if you're pissed off, you may stay up all night working it out but never shut your eyes mad). GOODLUCK

2006-08-21 14:39:32 · answer #1 · answered by MOCHALICIOUS 1 · 0 0

NAS SAID IT WELL WITH:
keep in touch as much as possible..
be there for each other..
send each other presents..
don't miss an imoportant occasion,
be faithful,
sent and international calling card
(Costco sells them)
send flowers on valentine's and birthdays if YOU can't be there.
surprise one another with an unexpected visit,
but don't over do it

Be prepared to do more listening to what is going on with her,
than spending phone time talking about what is going on with you--women feel so important when the guy is truly interested in what they are doing, seeing , experiencing, and what they think.
If she is learning and having fun, be genuinely happy for her, let her know she has your support--don't be morose and jealous since she is doing something you are not--be happy she is having new experiences, it will make her a better, more satisfied, well rounded women when she comes back to you!

AND THE BE FAITHFUL PART IS THE BIGGEST CHANCE YOU HAVE OF MAKING IT WORK!
ITALIAN GUYS ARE NOT ALL THAT GREAT, I HAVE SPOKEN WITH PLENTY OF MARRIED ITALIAN WOMEN, HEAR THE SAME IRRITATIONS ABOUT THEIR MEN AS WE HEAR HERE IN THE USA--A YEAR IS NOT SUCH A LONG TIME--FOCUS ON EARNING MONEY perhaps TO SAVE UP FOR LATER OR SOMETHING TO TAKE YOUR MIND OFF OF THE MISSING PART, AND DO SOMETHING CREATIVE WITH THAT PENT UP ENERGY. TURN IT INTO SOMETHING GOOD FOR YOU BOTH WHEN SHE RETURNS OR SOMETHING GOOD FOR YOURSELF IF SHE DOESN'T .
IF YOU FOOL AROUND AND GET AN STD... THAT WOULD BE A LOUSY WELCOME BACK , BABY, PRESENT!!!!

good luck

2006-08-21 14:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by susieque 4 · 0 0

I don't believe in long distance relationships.and she probably left for a year to take time off from you!Just saying!

2006-08-21 14:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can't, bud. Sorry to burst your bubble, but long-distance relationships DO NOT work. I was involved in one for 4 years...and ended in tragedy. Don't do it while you're still ahead.

2006-08-21 14:30:58 · answer #4 · answered by Angelheart 4 · 0 0

properly, I stay in Hawaii. And my mum and dad made me bypass to the mainland US to bypass to varsity. I had to leave my bf on the airport. i became depressed and cried plenty in the initiating. His kin adores me and that i love them too! I hated my college because he wasn't there and then I moved decrease back to Hawaii to be with him. We made it through. It takes artwork even with the undeniable fact that that is plausible. And distance does make the middle fonder!!

2016-11-26 22:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by halyard 4 · 0 0

I have the same problem, first I broke with my boyfriend for this reason, but really was necesary, now I have the same problem my love come back to poland and I'm so sad, but if you really love her you can try keep the relationship, with love all is possible. stop and think what do you want. bye

2006-08-21 14:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by lanik 3 · 0 0

You don't, find another girlfriend and one that is not moving off for a year.

2006-08-21 14:33:32 · answer #7 · answered by tracy211968 6 · 0 0

keep in touch as much as possible..
be there for each other..
send each other presents..
dont miss an imoportant ocassion, send flowers on valentine's and birthdays if u cant be there..
be faithful..
surprise one another with an unexpected visit, but dont over do it

good luck

2006-08-21 14:34:38 · answer #8 · answered by Nas 2 · 0 0

Keep in touch, talk (or chat ) every day if you can. I made one work for 4 years so you can too. Good luck!

2006-08-21 14:30:54 · answer #9 · answered by Alex M 2 · 0 0

You better make those long distance calls,women want to know you love'um..If you don't someone else will...

2006-08-21 14:32:49 · answer #10 · answered by D Grass 3 · 0 0

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