Well, last week I got up the courage to talk to a cute girl poolside at my apartment complex, and we ended up chatting for nearly an hour. It was a great conversation; not only is she pretty, but very smart (she's doing post-doctoral work at our local university) and-most important for this 30something in a college town-age appropriate. Plus, we have a few things in common, and she lives only a few apartments down from me too. Naturally, I asked her to have coffee or lunch with me, and she seemed interested, but she wouldn't give her number (perhaps because she's British and may still have a UK phone), instead saying she'd knock on my door when she wanted to talk. Since I hadn't heard or seen her all week, I walked to her place this past weekend and knocked on the door myself, but no one answered, even though the light was on and I heard a TV. It's been just over a week since we met, so should I keep trying, and if there's no answer, should I leave a note on her front door?
2006-08-21 14:25:40 · 4 answers · asked by Mario J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Play it cool. Dating a neighbor can be ugly. She make want to make sure it is the right thing. Acting clingy is not going to help.
2006-08-21 14:32:31 · answer #1 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave a note- then, if you don't hear from her, I'd let it go. I sometimes leave my tv or radio on when I'm not there. She may not have stopped by your place because maybe she wasnt sure if you really wanted her to or were just being polite... Leave the note and then the ball's in her court. If you don't hear from her, forget it.
2006-08-21 14:32:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the note!
2006-08-21 14:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends if u really wanna pursue u know like really want to cause u know it seems that she just disppered out of no where with out no thign u know
2006-08-21 14:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Taniqua S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋