why do guys love boobs so much? are there any guys that actually like girls for their personality? it seems to me as though every guy i've ever dated has only gone out with me for my boobs or because they thought that i was hot. why do guys do this???
2006-08-21 14:23:58 · 42 answers · asked by emilyy40193x3babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 5' 1'' and a 34C.
2006-08-21 14:40:24 · update #1
No way I can honestly give you an answer without seeing a real picture of you. i do know that all guys have different taste in women and yes men like girls with a great personality but no only. if your breast are a nice asset then whos to say they are wanting you because you have both?
2006-08-21 14:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by Lib 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read an article recently that scientifically examined the attraction to the opposite sex. It seems that guys are 56% visual, with the rest being personality, etc. while women are only 28% visual. I agree with this, and I don't know exactly why this would be so, but I think it is simply a fact that has to be dealt with.
I do remember a discussion we had in my fraternity about the ideal breast size in a woman, and some guys go for the D's and double D's, but honestly, most of the guys agreed with me that C's are the ideal size. (Unfortunately, B is the average) Oh well, just find a guy that you can really relate to, and he relates to you, that is the key. I really like the movie"runaway bride" starring Julia Roberts and Richard Gere for this reason.
2006-08-21 14:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Sciencenut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't give you a straight answer, but I would guess that it's deeply rooted in the primitive area of our brain and when the testosterone gets high look-out!
Don't believe that boobs or any other part of your anatomy is the only thing guys look at, though it's the most obvious. Guys really do like girls for more than self gratitude but alot of guys will try to chase the hottest girl as that is what they put to there top priority. Lust is a powerful thing but most guys really won't stay with a girls if they don't like the personality, so yes it does matter.
2006-08-21 14:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Strikernow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really not sure y most guys r so obsessed w/ big boobs. It really doesn't matter to me though, if a girl's not hot w/ a good personality I could care less if she has the biggest boobs in the world. I guess it's just a big fetish 4 some guys.
2006-08-21 15:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately or unfortunately for some, men are extremely visually oriented which means they like good looking women for one. Big boobs are beautiful to alot of guys and it's the woman's job to not make the situation worse by wearing clothing that makes her look sleazy or cheap. As far as a personality, you will soon be able to realize if you haven't already after a few minutes or dates with certain guys if they want you for your body or for you (which does include your body, but you probably don't want to give away free merchandise till you know who the customer is). Initial reactions are a given when it comes to looks, but it's your job to show the guy that you are so much more than a nice rack. Knock'em dead & Good luck.
2006-08-21 14:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Falcon Boy Toy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are visual oriented. Any guy that does not pay attention to your personality is only looking at the surface. Some only want a surface relationship & that is a shame. Gals are hard for guys to understand too at times. We want to fix things. Many times gals just want to be heard. We have a difficult time understanding that.
2006-08-21 14:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by Counselor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By today's standards, women with big boobs are more attractive or at least attracts the attention of us men readily. Now, Biologically, large breasts are signs of health. Primal instincy dictates that you only mate with the finest to promote your race. VIVA LA RASA!
Boobs come in handy in sex too. Although the best sex I had was with a small-cup woman (Cyra Tandog). She was AWESOME. =) There are more to women than boobs, I agree, but they make quite excellent ENHANCERS!!! =)
2006-08-21 14:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by Tony BEE Good 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breasts are an obvious sign of feminity and culturally acceptable to flaunt and showcase.
I did seek personality first. The boobs were a fringe benefit
2006-08-21 14:29:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do choose girls for their personality....the boobs are icing on the cake. Any size boobs is fine with me.
2006-08-21 14:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by ingy_692004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, breasts are the first thing guys look out because (and phicologists says this) we came with something called oral fixiation, this means that men unconsciously feel atraction for breasts, because of the fixiation they have of the time they were breast-fede.
I´ve heard that, but believe me, we like much more a great pesonality, it´s the same as saying that women likes big penises
2006-08-21 14:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by fan12ec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋