Ok, this is the situation: My boyfriend and I were together only 6 weeks. We broke up last weekend. This weekend I went to a party and all his friends were there but he wasn't. One of his buddies was hitting on me all night. Anyway, the next day he calls me upset that I was there, and said it was weird that I would go to a party where his friends were. I went with one of his friend's girlfriends. Is he upset because he found out that one of his friends was hitting on me, or is it more because I was at a party where 'HIS' friend were and he wasn't, or WHAT???
2006-08-21
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prairiefire_14
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ummmm, if ya aren't going out then why is he mad about?? he does not own you and you could go to wherever you choose to go. Anyways he's probably mad because he feels that you have moved on and he hasn't and thus he fels that you thought that the relationship didn't matter much.
2006-08-21 14:29:55
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answered by Kc 2
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Major taboo on the yahoo. Must be a small town. You were stocking him, but you were shouting for attention. He wasn't there because he'd know you would be there. If you broke up why do you care?
His friends shouldn't be hitting on you. I'm sure later he'll take it up with him, together or not. Do they think of you as a tramp?
After he hit on you, what did you do?
Women get attached and want to make it for life. Sometimes people learn they don't jive. Keep your own space and don't enter his again. Not because of him, but because you have your own dignity and can make a life without him. Don't let a guy be the center of all your ambitions. If a guy loves you he'll treat you like a queen.
2006-08-21 21:37:02
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answered by Anonymous
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He probably was upset that He didnt go to this party and then to find out that You did upset him even more because he couldnt be around you and hit on you and kind of "mark his territory" and keep other guys from hitting on you.
I wouldnt worry about it and if it happens again tell him that its his problem he doesnt like to have fun and not yours and to stop calling you.
2006-08-21 21:31:20
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answered by ziggunerin 4
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Kinda both, He found out you were at a party that he wasn't at, and he had his so called boys hitting on his ex girl, you don't do that its against the rules.
2006-08-21 21:32:21
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answered by ♫jmann♫ 5
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I think he was upset because you were at the party and he wasn't. He also probably thought you had already found a new guy.
2006-08-21 21:30:08
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answered by eric g 3
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did he break up with you or did you break with him?.. if u broke up with him then im pretty sure he maystill have alot of feelings for you since he was worried about you maybe its cause his friends were hitting on you and lets see if you start to go out with one of his friends ad then he wont be able to hang out with that friend cause you'll be with him and then your ex will be a bit nervous* and feela bit weird...
2006-08-21 21:30:15
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answered by phvxoui 2
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That's old news. You got hots for the new guy? No rules. Guy code is out the window.
2006-08-21 21:29:36
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answered by Johnny P 4
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He is just hurt that u have moved on so fast. try and respect that u two just broke up and i bet he still holds more feelings for u presently
2006-08-21 21:32:31
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answered by Blinch B 2
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If you did not open your legs or suck him off then he has no reason to say anything to you as you are a female of honor. However, if you screwed and blew him, then have the decency NOT to humiliate him by screwing and sucking his friends off too. That is all this is about. he is either crazy or you are a $lut. Only you know the answer.
2006-08-21 21:30:28
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answered by evilposterchild 2
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he still feels possessive and jealous because you just recently broke up. You are still "his" in part of his mind, but that will go away. Breaking up take time emotionally.
2006-08-21 21:31:28
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answered by Anonymous
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