I know I do because my family constantly hurts me, & I have no one else to turn to for support but Yahoo! Answers, although there are some immature, ignorant jerks on here.
& I don't want to feel alone. I feel like the only person who does this, but I do see others ask family questions about a family argument. I don't like when people give such rude answers, such as, "STOP YOUR WHINING & GO GET A JOB!"
Getting a job is not that easy for me. I've been struggling for years, trying to find a decent job.
2006-08-21 14:16:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
my first question in Y answers was how to overcome depression. Though I always tell others to seek professional support in this type of situation, at that moment I needed instant replies to my anxiety. I must say that in less that 5 minutes I got many answers from nice people, encouraging me to do different useful things to overcome my problem.
Sometimes we are too desperate and we need other people`s opinion or guide. In this site we are anonymous so we are more willing to open up. I perfectly understand you. Ignore those you tell you "Stop your whining, etc. etc." They are selfish, or they just can`t bear to hear about problems. Perhaps they don`t know how to solve their own.
Not everybody is immature, ignorant, etc. here. Good luck!
2006-08-21 15:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by lucrecia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that you are not just wanting to find a job. You are trying to find a decent job. Two things - try harder, any job is decent if you need to put bread on your table!
When you eventually get a job, you won't feel alone. It is staying at home and TRYING to find a DECENT job that makes you alone - cos most people are busy working, studying or getting a life - such as raising a young family.
Stop seeing people who tells you the truth and the very plain truth as jerks, immature or ignorant. Perhaps these descriptions best describe your shadow?
2006-08-21 21:26:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For my own experience I have asked a few questions, & was pleasantly suprised just how many people try to give honest, sincere, & heartfelt answers, & I get a good feeling when I learn that so many people will take the time to do so.
When I answer a question such as yours I try to do the same as the others & give it my best shot, & help out any way I can because that gives me a good feeling as well. Sure there are a lot of jerks out there, but you need to trust your instincts & filter out their responses as nonsense, & ignore them. I wouldn't use this forum as a substitute for good ol' fashioned therapy, but it is a good supplement. You're not alone, look at all of the people here who really care, you're part of it. Thank-You.
2006-08-21 21:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Struggle no more! Go back to school even if you take one class at a time, you'll meet new people and find so new ideas of what to do with you life. Soon the feeling of hurt will subside leaving you with a sense of great accomplishment.
Life is yours, make a good one for yourself.
2006-08-21 21:26:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ms New Booty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what your problem is, you sound sad.
I give a lot of humorous answers to questions that appear humorous. but if I feel hurt in a question I answer as truthfully as I can .
I do not approve of a hurtful answer to someone who is hurting.
I must tell you though that I am a Christian, and I say it boldly because I am the type of believer that has faced hardships.
I do not ask people to believe me with no proof, I ask them to test it.
I will not tell you to do anything but pray sincerely, ask Jesus to help you believing that he will and watch the change.
People who see miracles have become so accustomed to them until they only seem like miracles to those in spiritual blindness.
The scriptures say, "seek and ye shall find."
They also say "study to show thyself approved."
If you worship God just to worship him he will send so many blessings your way you wont have any place on this planet to store them.
Believe me when I say that I am going to say a prayer for you right now, I expect God to hear me, and he will send you blessings, accept them.
2006-08-21 21:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by theodore r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it for the honesty you get from strangers. Yur friends and family don't always tell you the truth b/c they think it will hurt them. But I would rather have brutal honesty than sugar coated bull$hit.
The crappy answers bug me, but so do some of the crappy questions. I just ignore them. Good luck
2006-08-21 21:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. But you everyone needs someone to vent. I know alot of people have no manners. If you want to discuss something without being judge you can contact me by email or whatever. I currently have my AA in Sociology and will be finishing my BA in a year.
I warn you. I will not be your "yes" man, but I will respect your feelings.
2006-08-21 21:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by eyeamatrip 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The stuff you wrote about getting a job
and how hard it is to find a decent job...
Don't let the Repugliscums read that line!
They are already bit*hing about how the vets
from Iraq are whinning about not able to get jobs...
Saying they should be happy to work at Mcdonalds...
And will say you should also!
McDonalds...
Bush's best job creator!
2006-08-21 21:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by BUSH IS A CLOWN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have asked for advice in the past. However, you must remember that you get what ya pay for. Just ignore the stupid responses and focus on the ones that really pertain to your situation.
2006-08-21 21:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by dropkickchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every human being on this earth that has ever lived has had problems. You should not rely on the info on here to guide your decisions in life.
2006-08-21 21:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jeep Freak 81 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋