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Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
I mean, she has barely talked to me. It seems like she is trying to avoid me. But i have no clue why. Should I ask her. I mean, she could be mad because, I havent talked to her. But i dont wanna pressure her. Because today, her mom told me, that if I really like someone else, I should move on. But that if I really like her daughter, I should be patient. What should i do??
2006-08-21 14:03:09 · 10 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean we talked a little bit, and she said hey yesterday. but what should i do
2006-08-21 14:03:43 · update #1
uh. . . dude. . .you're too young
2006-08-21 14:09:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact is ..... she is 13
no 13 year old girl is willing to settle down. your going to lose your patience and get frustrated and be heart broken if you decide to wait for this girl. if you want to know how she feels just straight up ask her. ignore the friends and her mother ask HER. she has a mind and a heart and can tell you for her self how she feels. but id advise you to move on. you might say you cant, but you will. everything passes with time. your in h.s when you go back to school just have fun, your getting more mature and attractive and the ladies around you and closer to your age are too. just have fun, if you decide to wait this girl out ... then its a lost cause. she is 13 with most likely no clue on what a real relationship is about
2006-08-21 14:18:24 · answer #2 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... if someone is interested in multiple people and can't decide isn't a good sign in my book. And another thing you need to realize she's only 13 she doesn't' know what she really wants. In my opinion she's a lost cause, I don't thinks she is worth pursuing. But if you want the chapter to come to a closure you should ask her then even if its something you don't want to hear.
2006-08-21 14:14:24 · answer #3 · answered by B.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but it seems to me that she doesn't like you...
if she liked you she wouldn't of been all over those two other guys..
but thats just my opinion, I still think you should move on, even if it is going to be hard there's someone out there for you.
2006-08-21 14:15:24 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to be agonizing over a 13 year old girl. Forget about her and get on with your life.
2006-08-21 14:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing is to back off. Let nature take its course. Don't worry, some one special will accidently walk into your life and you will ask, why did I even waste my time.
2006-08-21 14:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like this girl doesn't have the same feelings for you that you have for her. I think you schould talk to her and ask her, her feelings. Tell her she is playing with your heart and you really need to know how she feels. Tell her you need to know from her wether you schould move on or wait.
2006-08-21 14:14:58 · answer #7 · answered by gismo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a ho if she is all over guys where ever she goes. I'd move on if I were you, my friend.
2006-08-21 14:10:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u wanna get her back just do something that u too used to do together, something special for you two.
2006-08-21 14:13:01 · answer #9 · answered by Oriel-Nirnaan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, yes you are young but you gotta make something outta your "childhood"... good luck with talking to her ^^
2006-08-21 14:13:50 · answer #10 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋