Ok pretty much the title... I've been asking friends on this one. I came from a middle school with alot of people, and as much as I hate braging, I was a top guy at the school. Im not looking for input on my looks in this but I am looking for advice.
Im in a high school now with about 5,000 students, and about 2,7000 are female. Well I happen to get lucky and am currently dating a top notch junior. Well I have a past for alot of girls but not keeping them. I feel prilaged and really want to prove my worth with her. Will you guys help tell me some ways that could really make her realise how much she means to me?
Thanks alot.
2006-08-21 14:01:32 · 18 answers · asked by Kyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didnt ask for your imput on our looks. I added the information on our looks to add the importance of my question.. I could care less that shes well known... I just want to stay with her for a whlie because I truly like her.
2006-08-21 14:10:20 · update #1
Hmm Im sorry for placing the top notch thing.. It does sound pretty big headed. And Im dating her for the fact that I think shes different than most girls. What I didnt mention she is my swim partner for the varsity team... SO I see her every night,,,
Thanks alot for the posotive input on this.
2006-08-21 14:23:47 · update #2
I'm a sophomore dating a senior.
We both have acknowledged that there is an age difference and we learned to accept it cause there is nothing we can do about it.. we just show each other how much we care for the other and make sure not to forget the little things that really matter in relationships. [the talking/communication- in addition to just having fun on a Saturday night together] Drop a surprise every once in a while to keep her into you... Flowers are great. Maybe a surprise date .. just tell her to get ready and you'll take her somewhere but dont tell her till you get there. By a river just looking at the stars... anything. Be Creative and Be Yourself... Just dont forget to let her know how much you care.
2006-08-21 14:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bridgett 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a history of not being able to keep a girl it is most likely because you are a shallow prick! You refer to this girl as a top notch Junior which shows you are dating her because she is a Junior and not for who she is. You will lose her just like you lost the others until you grow up and realize in the world of punani. . . quality is more important than quantity!
2006-08-21 14:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats sad... that a junior would date a little freshman like you. and why i have no idea, you sound arrogant, and maybe you think your a top notch guy but not all people may feel that way, and your so called top notch junior girlfriend, well you might just think she's top notch, when really both of you are ugly. (its just a thought, im not trying to be mean but ya never know, can't believe what people say, especially on the internet!)
2006-08-21 14:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would recommend discontinuing it because despite what "modern thinking" suggests, you don't want to get into the habit of going out with older girls or women. It's questionalble whether you're old enough to be dating, anyway, and it sounds like you're too egotisitical and caught up in it. You have a "past" for a lot of girls? Since when, age 12?
2006-08-21 14:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a "top notch junior" .... "top guy". Sounds like you are trying to breed dogs not date.
When you get older you will realize its more about compatability, compromise and love and less about status...
It doesnt sound like she means all that much to you besides for her status as a "top notch junior"
Just be yourself... but try to be consiterate and thoughtful
if you try to be anything else, most people can tell you are being fake...
take care
2006-08-21 14:09:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be sweet to her, and dont let your eye wander... if you know what I mean. Since there is such an age difference, there are going to be other guys wanting your girl, so try not to get jealous... and just be sweet and have fun with her. Make sure that she has a good time, no matter what you two are doing. Good luck!
2006-08-21 14:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by s..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u just tell her? just make sure u dont sound too corny. if not do something that u normally wouldn't do or have never done for a girl. make her feel special- and u just have to notice her in a different way. well jop ei helper good luck!
p.s. i think its so cute when hot guys and hot girls go out together!
2006-08-21 14:10:37 · answer #7 · answered by cicibaby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
uh, keeping her around is a start. lol. tell her how you truly feel and hope she doesnt think you a pathetic loser. give her flowers and gifts and whatever. and its called proofreading by the way. theres no 27000 in 5000 genius. what school do you go to? DEE DEE DEE Academy for Retards? BURN! lol jk
2006-08-21 14:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Dope boy magic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
way to go man, take good care of her.... I remember back in the day which was 1975, i was a sophmore and my gal was a senoir if u both are serious about each other then take thing's slow, You have your whole life's ahead of each other, take your time.. good things come to those who wait..
2006-08-21 14:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be good to her, it sounds to me thou that your dating her just because shes "a top notch girl"
2006-08-21 14:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Megs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋