is this categorical prrof that christians are thick...? so far nobody can answer a simple question?

Question

http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aptdku3tLRYMPr7hpD0s3K6KBgx.?qid=20060821170516AALAvSL

the link to the question...


So far all have proven them selves thick or maliciously spitful in getting thrills from hurting folk by not answering the question litteraly as instructed with resoning as not giving an answer shows you care nothing for others...


Or must clearly be to dumb to anser such a simple question as instructed with reasoning

Yes can spell proof and the other words but can only type looking down...

So no spelling anal freaks just answer the link question if you can

How more simple could I make the question?

the answer has to have a number made up of

0,1,2,3,4,5,6,6,7,8,9 ie digits a number ie an age beyond which it is no longer worth holding onto a virginity given all the feelings, emotions etc you miss out on even if not perfect to get something out of life givien you missing out on your teen years, your college years, you party years... that fact aht beyond 30 they are virtually no singles left and beyond most females will need ivf to get pregnant and beyond 70 whats the point in waiting as er no sex..


No sex = no affection, no love no nothing.

The question is simple, resoned and specifically requiring a numerical figure in the answer stating it is not a valid answer

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So lets do this litterally... you think its fine for one prson to get 20 years of hugging, love, sex and all things that go with it... and another to ger 3 weeks and crappy 3 weeks at that? is that fiar or just... No hence the question.

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So far only one answer rob below... thats the idea but please list reasons for that age.

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Let me put this real simple...

You are ducking the question...

if you HAVE to give a figure then you have to look properly as to why that particualr age would be significant in realtions to what that person s likely to have done or in terms or what they would be able to do after.

For example its no good waiting till you are an old age pensioners who can't get it up let along try advanced positions

or taking into account things like not much use if you want to ever have kids waiting till you are past menopause.

Also taking that into account do you want some couple years before you have kids.#

or how about something as simple as its a lot easier in school or uni then at work and in bars?


Ie think practically why there should be a cut off point before you realise waiting for someone to marry is wasiting your life and look at all you are missing out on

The question is actually very senseible if you actually think about it and why should there be a cut off point and when should it be if you think about typical life cycles

Answer 1

Infodude,
You ask:
"So lets do this litterally... you think its fine for one prson to get 20 years of hugging, love, sex and all things that go with it... and another to ger 3 weeks and crappy 3 weeks at that? is that fiar or just... No hence the question."
As an old person, please respect my attempt to answer your question. As you are an educated person, you must KNOW LIFE IS NOT FAIR!!
So, 20 yrs for one and 3 wks for another is what these two people were dealt.
As this question and the first are in the RELIGION AND SPIRITUALTY section of Q/A (And I read your dating question about virginity also)
You can not seem to accept that humans have not set time to DO anything. HUMANS HAVE FREE WILL, so some experiment with sex at a very young age 10-12 while others the concept or urge really never hits them at all, and go their whole life without any sex at all. Can you accept this? Now normally an American male will be looking to start at 16. I do not know anything about women, and few men do - so rewrite your question just for women, AND PLEASE BE SHORT, AND CONSICE!
Back to men. Men look their whole life at women, married or not. If a man has a pulse and any sensual input organs working (nose, ear, eye, touch) a man will look at a woman. Have you never heard of bumping into a woman with your elbow? Or watched in the mall as women walk by men of any age? They all look - we have no control. It's like not looking at a masterpiece at a museum, or a sunset, or the leaves turning in Maine, etc. Men look at women. OK.
Getting the baseball game started. I can't help you. I was in the Navy before I was at plate. Getting to first, second third. I had a home run, but not with my true love, that happened 12 years later. We were married for 11 yrs and are now 5 yrs divorsed. So now I'd suggest:
1. rewiting all your questions - so that they are much shorter.
2. No emotional out bursts - they only make people more rude.
3. understand your audience, keep it simple!!
4. When people answer - accept it, as they are taking time to help you.
5. A question about sex and virginity on the religion Q/A is kind of weird. Did you mean the ramifications of the morality of the act? Being young too old? Religiously love comes to all at different times. Very old people can find deep love late in life. Very young peole can also find a deep love - and wait years and years - and confound their community until they are ready. Love / sex / relationships are 3 totally different things/emotions/urges.
Infodude, please concider breaking these huge quetions into smaller easier to handle bundles. Then reassemble the bundles to get what your looking for.
Also - all these stangers helping you - can not actually provide help in your life, only what happened in theirs. Reflect upon what you want, what your comfortable with/doing, understand yourself, be happy with who you are. Concentrate on the community you live in, helping where you can. Take a break from self examination, and live a little.

Answer 2

Sorry but it is not the answers that you received that were stupid but the question you asked.

There is no deadline for losing your virginity. When that time comes, if it does, depends on a many different factors and the idea of giving a specific age is ludicrous.

I am an atheist, and do not believe that you need to wait until you are married before losing your virginity. But even I would not be prepared to give a specific age when you should first have sex. It is different for every individual.

Answer 3

You are baiting people, so I guess you'd expect them to fight back.

You are in fact imposing what you think on them, for example by saying: 'realise you have missed out'. I am not saying I disagree with you, on the contrary (I just answered your original with some pompous stuff and a number at the end), but the way you phrased your question attracts certain types of people and certain types of answers.

Before you go totally ballistic, it is a known fact that the way you phrase questions can influence answers and is a trick used by research companies and pollsters worldwide.

So for this question... No it's not categorical proof that 'Christians are thick', just proof, if there need be, that the way you ask a question tends to influence who answers and what type of answers are given.

Answer 4

Excuse us for not answering the question the way "you instructed us with resoning (misspelled) and not giving an answer, good grief, get over yourself bud.
You have a question about virginity, you are on a religious link. I am a Christian and I believe that you should wait until you're married, but most of the world doesn't think this way, and you probably don't either, but that doesn't make me angry or upset, what is upsetting is when people come on and insult people because they didn't answer a question, come on chill out.

Answer 5

There are Spiritual Law's that GOD put on the EARTH.
They Operate on Automatic and were here befor GOD put Mankind on the EARTH.
GOD tell's us About these Law's so we can get Blessed, and GOD can change them too.
Basically they are Reaping and Sowing Law's.
They work everytime whether anybody See's you do something (i.e., Stealing) or doing a GOOD Thing.
What goes' round come's round----funny, but even People in Remote part's of the EARTH down through the Century's have Figured this one out.
Hope this helps.
The Law's on your Subject are in the BIBLE.

Answer 6

I think it's a bit rude to call them thick, you don't wanna start another religion based war do you?
I think the answer is that they are not the most open minded of people and in order to answer a question properly one must consider a range of possibilities.

Answer 7

You just judged all Christians based on the answers of a select few. A "true" Christian believes in and follows the teachings of Christ. Jesus taught us that the greatest command is to love each other. Someone who is "maliciously spiteful" and hurts others cannot possibly be a true Christian.

Answer 8

Well, your question could have been a bit more concise (and polite). But you're right, you did get a lot of crappy answers.

And no, it's not proof that Christians are thick. The fact that they worship dead carpenters is a better argument for "thick" but that's just my opinion.

Answer 9

You should understand that you are asking this question in the wrong catagory, and you have a lowsy attitude,. It would appear that you are asking a question with a big chip on your shoulder. So take your question over to the aids clinic. And after you have gotten valid answers to your questions you can publish them. To demand honest answers from this catagory for those of us who have had our sins forgiven. We don't need someone to through them back in our face, Thank you. NO OFFENCE!!!!!

Answer 10

You made no sense in the previous question, honestly. Fact is, you can't ell people what to do on here. I've asked people in my questions to keep it clean, usually I get less responses. More than often they have no idea what i am talking about, and I know it is easy to read. But, your question was not clear. Read it out loud and understand.