Dated Mr. Wonderful for 1 year and was madly in love. He met someone and wanted to "see what would happen" and stepped away from us being together completely. Now just 4 months later he has realized that things with her have not materialized and he is calling and wanting to see me again and start a relationship. I have remained completely in love with him. He admittedly was unsure of how deep his love was for me when he ended thigs. Should l give him the chance again?
2006-08-21 13:54:25 · 11 answers · asked by justclicktherubyslippers 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah why not, sometimes relationships need to go through up and downs to know where there really going. You never know. Young people specially, like to explore other things so when you take this much space and come back, the feelings are usually alot stronger than before.
2006-08-21 14:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by skdfjasl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure, go ahead, if u r BOTH still burning with love for each other. Bear in mind romantic love NEVER lasts - there must b lots of other positive ways u both can build a relationship on which r equally important to keep u both going together. Strong tolerance, acceptance of the differences, friendship r the serious issues u can "build" together - then it cud last. All the bessst
2006-08-21 21:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to see if he broke it off with him or visa versa. It could of not worked out for her so she broke it off with him and now he is wanting you back. Be prepared if you do go out with him again it might happen again. I had this guy that I dated when I was younger who did that to me and cried back I fell for it a few more times and then got wiser and told him I did not want to see him again.
2006-08-21 21:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONe, I have to respect the guy. At least he did not just turn around and cheat on you. I would give him another chance. But I would be on my gaurd from getting hurt. Suggest dating at first . (not exclusive) see how things go. Let him know you are not ALWAYS available.
2006-08-21 21:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by meisme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always try it but i would be wary of him. He might have just broke up with you so he didnt have to cheat on you. I would watch for signs of cheating. And if he desides to leave you for someone else again then wants to come back i would tell him no. Not just no but Hell No.
2006-08-21 21:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has realised that he made a mistake leaving u but my advice to u is that if u still love and want him back, go ahead but make it difficult.
2006-08-21 21:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by Blinch B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him one more chance since you love him and since he seems to love you. But let him know that this will be it and if he does it again there will be no more chances.
2006-08-21 21:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by toughguy2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think if he's worth it. Then if not say no because he most probably left you for another chick and it didn't work out so he wants you again just to be with anyone.
2006-08-21 21:02:11 · answer #8 · answered by jmartinme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dumped u once, whats to say he wont do it again.i know u say u love him but how many more times are u willing to let him hurt u again ? u can only be hurt so meany times before it starts to afect u.
2006-08-21 21:23:32 · answer #9 · answered by drth2oman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You're his alternative and backup girl. He put this girl before you. You can go back to him if you like but I wouldn't. And how do you know he won't do it again
2006-08-21 21:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋