Hey everyone. I am in a relationship and love her very much, but I have never been in a relationship before and wonder will I someday regret never having sewn my wild oats if you will. lol Do those of you who have sewn them regret it all? Do those of you who are now in a commited relationship regret not having done it? Thanks.
2006-08-21 13:46:52 · 10 answers · asked by BILL J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 30 and I am man. lol
2006-08-21 14:08:26 · update #1
No regrets
2006-08-21 13:53:09 · answer #1 · answered by loligo1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very glad I tried different things before I got married. I am not saying to go have sex with everyone as the diseases that are out there are really scary, but you need to be in a relationship where there is trust and if there is trust between you both, you can sew your wild oats together.
2006-08-21 20:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by lovinjerry_2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what... Is she a good person, does she treat you right... Are you two happy... If you are Then shut up... Why? because You are more going to regeret if you loose her and try to "sow" your oats then if you keep her and realize that she is a good woman, treats you right, loves you, and was the one. for if you break up with her things will get ugly, no matter how much you try to stop that from happening... You will probably not get back together, and if you do, it will more likely be wierd by that point.... You will end up regeretting leaving her in the first place...
I know of several people who have messed up their lives because they wanted to "sew their oats" and lost the one that they loved and treated them like queens, and instead are now married to some ****** because they got knocked up by the wrong guy...
2006-08-21 20:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rob D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This ? shud b answered by a guy? Or gal too? Since this was typically a guy's "natural instinct" y wud they regret - what's over is soon forgotten eh? But I hear a lot of gals doing the same now (accepted practice?) - mayb the gals take longer to forget, that's all.
2006-08-21 20:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? it's hard to say what one will regret later on in life. if it doesn't work out with you and this person you could definitely regret it, but you also could be happy forever, i know this didn't help you but that's life. most everything is a maybe at best
2006-08-21 20:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not really and yea i had been in a commited relationship and regret having done it but i learned usallly when its just maybe cause ur in a relationship and ur trying to see wats out there and thats usally not as good as u had right there
2006-08-21 20:56:45 · answer #6 · answered by Taniqua S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did it, regretted it. Lots of relational issues resulted.
2006-08-21 20:52:36 · answer #7 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...I've been with a "few" men...I don't regret it at all...I've gotten to do things so many other ppl will never have the chance to do...experience...not all that many truly open minded ppl out there...there is a difference between "thinking" your open minded and being open minded...go out and experience life...have fun...but..play safe!...lol
2006-08-21 20:54:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't regret it. But I'm not you do what you wanna man!
2006-08-21 20:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and do it! My ex wife didn't do it... "Ex wife" is the key word!
2006-08-21 20:52:57 · answer #10 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋