would you forgive your sister for coming onto you - even kissing you?

Question

if she apologized again and again.....

actually......i'm the sister that was doing the coming on and the apologizing...... my sister is the one who won't forgive

Answer 1

sweetie...listen. i read your other questions about how you kissed your sister...and it's 100% OK. If she's still upset, just say it will never happen again, and if she could find it in her heart to fogive you, that you would deeply appreciate it. I feel really sad about your problem, but i know how you feel, bcuz the same thing happened to me, only my sister denies it every time i bring the issue up. Also, you can get some GREAT advice from Dr. Drew on LoveLine. The number is 1-800-LOVE-191. Love Line starts at 10pm, to 12am. Dr. Drew is the best and he has helped me with so many problems, from sexual stuff to family issues. Go ahead and call, and don't be embarassed. Remember...you're NOT the only one who has this kind of problem, there's thousands, if not millions of people who have this problem. Good luck, hun!

Answer 2

Without knowing how old your sister is, I would imagine she's in her early teens. If she's not you may have a problem, but communication is the key.

if she IS very young -- she's just curious, maybe a bit confused too, but who can or SHOULD she trust more than her own older sister?

Don't freak, understand that she growing up - sit down with her and TALK TO HER about the feelings she's experiencing.

This is a actually a great opportunity for you to get closer as sisters - and no, i don't mean in "that way"

Answer 3

What is wrong with you ? You are sisters and to give your sister a kiss is ok. But coming on to her !!!! Good Gosh, don't you have work to do or do some studying. Get a life and keep your mind and yourselves occupied. That is so sick to hear. You know when you have relationships with Family members it is called Incest. DO NOT DO THAT. Don't you have any sense of decency ? Go ride your bikes and get in with your Friends. STOP IT , RIGHT NOW !!

Answer 4

I've heard of sisters kissing each other and even having a physical relationship but as a man, I would be weirded out if my theoretical sister tried to kiss me.

Answer 5

My sister would never do that...
But she is your sister.
Forgiving is not something you can ask other people about.
Because even if you forgave with words, if it's not in your heart than it is almost the same as not forgiving but then saying words are sometimes...the first step.

Answer 6

she's your sister..i would forgive her...but i would have to sit her down and ask " why did you kiss me?"... Talk it out with her, maybe this incident will bring you two closer as sisters not as the next guests on Jerry Springer. I wish you and your sister the best! Good Luck!

Answer 7

I would think that maybe your sister needs help? Not that is into other girls but for the fact she is into YOU.....

Forgive her and love her as your sister and help her get HELP for something that is obviously wrong. Find a psychologist.

Answer 8

waz she drunk? did she mustike u for a crush? I would forgive her but LOTS of questions float around as to WHY?

The why is what clearify's things...
like u were mid word and she stuck her tounge in ur mouth....( strange)

I hope u figure it out...... who knows maybe in a few yrs u 2 will look back and laugh at this

Answer 9

i'd forgive her but i'd also want to know what on earth made her act out like that. if she does it again even after u tell her to stop, then tell ur mom so maybe she can get to the bottom of it. i don't have to tell u it's wrong and immoral right? from a legal standpoint, it's also not allowed.

Answer 10

one thast your sister and two iam not trying to be religious but you should always forgive no matter what, your sister and you have diffrent views very weird on her part but just talk it over with her find out where she is coming from and all should be good