2006-08-21 13:25:56 · 38 answers · asked by Hope 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love the ignorance displayed in these answers. It really does not matter how many people someone has slept with, maybe they just like sex or something and maybe they have been single and used condoms for every person they have slept with. Surely your only concern about ANY partner should be if they will be loyal to you and if they are free from STD's. Someone could have had 1 or 2 partners and may have an STD. A prostitute may have slept with 500 men and she is probably 10 times more careful than the average person you might meet in a club on a friday night.
I don't think someone should brag about it, but at the end of the day if sleeping with many partners is in your past it does not matter.
Yuo lot need to lighten up, be more liberal and realise there is nothing wrong with sex even with different partners as long as people use condoms, etc. If there are 2 consenting adults and people are honest about it...who cares?
2006-08-21 15:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Donna : 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oddly enough, 'how many people have you slept with' is not something I would consider asking someone I was thinking about dating, how rude would that be?!
People sleep with people for all different reasons and it's pretty arrogant to judge someone on just one aspect of their personality.
I would never not date someone because they been around the block a few times, all I'd want to know, as I would with anyone with whom I was considering sleeping with, is whether they had practised safe sex with their previous partners, which the important thing.
Honestly, half the world is bragging about how many people they've slept with and the other half look down on those who they consider promiscuous. Who gives a toss?
As long as you're good at what you do, I don't care how many times you've done it.
2006-08-21 13:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pretty Tough Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's up to you isn't it ! we must all accept that in today's society we all have some kind of baggage, be it children, an ex who won't or can't let go, or some family issue. But if you like the person that much does it really matter how many partners they have had ? after all you must have some baggage yourself ! Now the question is are you prepared to accept this & make a go of things ? if you care, & more importantly are in love with this person then go give it a whirl what's the worst thing that could happen ! you being number 51 ! in thier quest to find that life time partner.
2006-08-21 16:41:17 · answer #3 · answered by pompeyblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married someone who's slept with more than 50 people, so I take it as a compliment.
2006-08-21 13:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by Karen? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You may have already done it and don't know it. This is why we should never ask, "How many people have you slept with?" Now, if I found out anyway, I personally feel fine with it. Can she be in a committed relationship now? That should be all you should be concerned about.
2006-08-21 13:39:10 · answer #5 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was interested, of course I would date him. Now having sex is a different story. It would definitely have to be a serious and monogamous relationship. Of course after he/she had been tested and the results were negative. I would also use condoms as a precautionary measure. Hopefully he/she will rock your socks off with all that experience!!! LOL
2006-08-21 13:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Annooch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was dating that's cool, i would really both go in and get checked out, that way shes not totally turned off.
Maybe after a while you will see that she might be done with the sleeping around thing and want to be only with you..
Good Luck
2006-08-21 13:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by girlscanfishtoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife married me!!!! I slept with over 90 women in my life,but after I married, I tore up my "little black book". Yes I am std free. We have been together 22 years now, so there.
2006-08-21 13:40:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
owe my god like 50 people in the same bed at one time there hmm isent it kind of crowded there hons you really want too intrupt this giant orgy of 50 people gpoing at it doing the big bang in this bed of 50 people wow hons you will be shoveed on the floor, its a wonder the poor bed dont break in half fuifty people at this orgy screwing wow hot damn!1
2006-08-21 13:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they were hot n good 2 b around i would.
they would have a lot of experience in bed tho wouldnt they? so thats always a good thing.
i would err on the side of caution tho.. he might screw aroudn with me and move on. cuz 50 is quite a lot.
but no, if he really turned me on and pushed my buttons.. it owuldnt stop me at all!! yaaaaaaaa
2006-08-21 13:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by marzipanchan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋